But its not for all kids though. We had a couple of kids from our club actually in my Sons team make the Tigers 13s side this year. They are twins and young Samoan Boys. 1 is a prop and the other a centre. Both decent players who probably deserved their selection. I went along to one of their trainings and they were pretty demoralised. Wernt enjoying it and didnt seem happy. I went to 1 of their Tigers games and they both got decent minutes and opportunities but the effort wasnt there. I had a chat to them after and they said they were ok. I spoke to their older Sisters ( they come from a big family 9 kids and include 3 sets of twins) and the Sisters said they dont like it and want to quit. I get to their club trainings and they are full of smiles and doing their trick plays because they are comfortable in the enviroment they are in. They would rather play footy with their mates and hang out after training doing tiktoks than being in rep sides being pushed and pushed.
A lost opportunity but Like i said its not appealing for everyone
I dont mind this.
If these young fellas love playing the game but dont like the rep team stuff, it could prove a godsend.
I say this because Rugby League has become too structured, too regimented....resulting in a boring product.
Kids need to grow into themselves without adults pushing them in a certain direction. I dont like these pathways for 11-14 year olds. It is having a negative effect on the sport.
These two young blokes will go back to clubland and for the next 4 or 5 years and they will have fun, whilst honing and expanding their skills, whilst some of their contemporaries will be driven into the ground, getting brainwashed to all play exactly the same way. When their paths cross again, Ill bet the two guys who spent their adolesence enjoying the game and exploring all facets of how to gain advantages through playing free footy, learning how to control their own game and getting the best out of their abilities will stand out against the robots. It is at this time, they will decide if they are serious.
My nephew is a very good player who hates the drudgery of the rep scene and he has been told as a 14 year old that he has to make a decision over the school holidays as to whether he commits or just plays for the love of it.
The coach who told him this is a f**king deadshit and its people like him who are turning this game into the shitshow we've watched for the past couple of seasons.
So I dont see it as a lost opportunity...