Ask LU - The relationship advice thread II

[Cliffhanger]

I tried to talk to him

 

[dogslife]

Tell him he's a stallion

 

[urban eel]

I'd like to hear sportive cupids opinion on this

Give him some space he'll calm down

 

[butchmcdick]

I tried to talk to him

Then there isn't much you can do other than leave messages and hope he responds

How terrible is terrible ?

 

[Eelementary]

Cliffy, two of my friends slept together years ago. It took a long time for things to get back to normal. In fact, she wants to talk to him, but he refuses.

 

[Dani]

The guy I lost it to was my best friend in high school until that night. Said maybe 3 words to eachother since. Close to 10 years. Wow.

 

[Bazal]

Wish I'd had sex, terrible or otherwise, with my friend before she stopped talking to me. At least I'd have got something out of it...I mean what?

 

[butchmcdick]

Yeah I have been that guy ( no not the guy who smashed dani's seal of freshness from god but the guy who has sex with a girl then ignores them)

For me I felt bad as I thought they thought I liked them far more than I did

When I look back I feel like an arsehole and wish I had done things differently once the condom came off and the clothes went back on

 

[butchmcdick]

Look this might sound odd but is he gay or does he have a gf ?

Because that isn't a normal reaction

I don't think you are the one with the issue

Also three minutes, what is he a marathon runner ?

 

[Cliffhanger]

Do you think then he doesn't value my friendship?

 

[butchmcdick]

Do you think then he doesn't value my friendship?

No

I think he has issues with sex and these have nothing to do with you cliff

In the end all you can do is try to contact him. If he doesn't respond give it a week or so. If nothing then it's his loss

 

[butchmcdick]

All this is guess work though

The only one who really knows is mr car sex

 

[Eelementary]

I agree with butch. His reaction is odd...

 

[Cliffhanger]

Look this might sound odd but is he gay or does he have a gf ?

Because that isn't a normal reaction

I don't think you are the one with the issue

Also three minutes, what is he a marathon runner ?

Sex was his idea not mine. He's not gay as far as I know and doesn't have girlfriend either to the best of my knowledge. Whatever he's back in Queensland now, I can't keep reading out to him, he's making me feel like I'm chasing him.

 

[AlwaysGreen]

You're a dud root cliffhanger. Get over it, it won't be the last time a guy's franger will be repulsed by your touch.

 

[AlwaysGreen]

No.
Here's a tip, stop divulging your whole life on the Internet. We all have our issues, and what your doing is not going to solve anything.

FTR, I know I'm an insensitive prick but the truth is your situation is one I'm quite familiar with, without providing fodder for dickheads on here who already have a go at me for my current profession (which I'm proud of) I used to deal with sexual assault victims in my last career.

Clifford, I'm sorry for your past but opening up about it and talking about your personal life post event might be good on Dr Phil but in real life it doesn't fix anything.

 

[Apey]

It was awkward. He lasted like three minutes

Wow triple my best score

 

[Helmet Man]

tell him to use a dildo next time.

 

[adamkungl]

Also three minutes, what is he a marathon runner ?

That includes the obligatory period of sobbing into the girls hair right?

...I've said too much.

 

[butchmcdick]

No.
Here's a tip, stop divulging your whole life on the Internet. We all have our issues, and what your doing is not going to solve anything.

FTR, I know I'm an insensitive prick but the truth is your situation is one I'm quite familiar with, without providing fodder for dickheads on here who already have a go at me for my current profession (which I'm proud of) I used to deal with sexual assault victims in my last career.

Clifford, I'm sorry for your past but opening up about it and talking about your personal life post event might be good on Dr Phil but in real life it doesn't fix anything.

I don't know what you do now but if you told girls who had been raped to essentially stfu no wonder you are not a dealing with sexual assault victims anymore

Ffs AG, ffs