Ask LU - The relationship advice thread II

[Skinner]

It's hard when you put yourself out there and it doesn't turn out the way it's supposed to/you wanted. Whatever that may be. I am the queen of rejection.

Take your time Cliffy. Hugs.

Aw Dani, if I were 30 years younger and single, I'd be down there like a flash.

Good old fashioned courtship and lots of wooing (love that word), and the game would be on. No way should you ever be rejected. Someone is out there just waiting honey....it will happen.

 

[Dani]

Never gonna find him when I don't leave my bedroom.

Anywho, I was trying to be supportive for Cliffy, not start a pity party.

 

[Eelementary]

Never gonna find him when I don't leave my bedroom.

Anywho, I was trying to be supportive for Cliffy, not start a pity party.

I can't be arsed leaving my room, either.

 

[Dani]

And yet you have a girlfriend!

 

[Eelementary]

Yeah...But not for much longer, tbh. Things ain't too good atm.

 

[Dani]

I'm sorry. Sometimes my foot ends up in my mouth, down my throat and out the other end.

 

[Eelementary]

But that's neither here nor there tbh.

I'm a boring person - I enjoy my own company and the company of a very select few. I'm not a partier or a drinker.

But I met my gf and haven't looked back.

Interestingly enough, though, the one thing that had to happen for me to meet my gf was to stop looking so actively. I put a lot of effort into trying to find someone and it never got anywhere. But when I stopped looking so hard, she walked into my life.

Dani, you're a top chick. It will happen. It might be hard to see how or when, but it will. Definitely.

 

[Eelementary]

I'm sorry. Sometimes my foot ends up in my mouth, down my throat and out the other end.

It's not your fault!

It's mine. I'm not happy with certain aspects of my life and my gf likes to feed off positive energy. I'm bringing her down.

We'll see how we can work it out.

 

[Dani]

You've been through loads together though. I hope you can work it out.

 

[Eelementary]

Me, too. She's a top chick.

I suppose someone being consistently negative and cranky takes a toll on someone else's tolerance levels.

 

[Dani]

I hear that. I am that. Meh.

 

[Eelementary]

You've got reasons to be, though. I don't, really.

Although according to some, optimism is a trait that can be learned.

 

[Dani]

 

[Dani]

You've got reasons to be, though. I don't, really.

Although according to some, optimism is a trait that can be learned.

No I don't. I chose to stay in my black hole. It's really not good.

 

[Eelementary]

No I don't. I chose to stay in my black hole. It's really not good.

You've had a tough time, and some of the people you've associated with have turned out to be lower than scum. It's no surprise you feel that way - I would, too.

Besides, people care. If only you lived in NSW, we could hang and watch TV shows and have a grand old time.

So the moral is - movetoNSWplz.

 

[Frederick]

I'm sorry. Sometimes my foot ends up in my mouth, down my throat and out the other end.

I hear you can make a good living in Thailand with skills like that

 

[Dani]

Hrmm. I wonder what kind of $$$ I could make...

 

[urban eel]

can i pay in Nutella?

 

[Dani]

Diabetic...

 

[urban eel]

foot rubs?