My ex is doing my head in. I'm trying my best to remain friends with her because I care about her and because she's going through a hard time; but when she posts stuff like"
"That moment when your ex refuses to go to the Philippines with you and then goes six months later. That moment when your ex refuses to move to Thailand with you, but then moves there a year later. That's why he is my EX".
I turned down going to the Philippines with her because we were about to break up and she wanted me to take unpaid leave to go meet her there. When I go in January, it's on paid scheduled leave.
I didn't want to move to Thailand with her because we fought constantly and I didn't want to trade a 20 hour a week teaching job for a 40 hour a week teaching job. When I move to Thailand next year, I don't intend to work at all.
It frustrates me because she seems completely blind to the extenuating circumstances (and pretends we didn't fight on a daily basis), but also because I'm doing all I can to be supportive and she posts shit like that and passive aggressively complains to me about how I'm a jerk for doing something she wanted to do.