So you would essentially cast aside your own values for your parents. So essentially you as individual don't really stand for much and are nothing on your own.
So I am not allowed to berate for dedicating your life to the wants of other people while ignoring your own needs but you can berate me for refusing to live my life according to the expectations of others?
I would go out of my way to help someone I cared about, but I wouldn't cast aside my dreams and ambitions for them.
You know what's the first thing you learn in First Aid, it's that the most important person is you and you need to ensure your safety first. Forgoing your own mental health for the sake of other people is only going to be detrimental.
You're not doing anybody any favours by being the way you are, but whatever.
No. Do you even read what I just said? Atheism has no value to me. It's not a value, it's nothing. I couldn't care less about it. Making my parents happy would be a value for me. Being with them and seeing them happy would make me happy. So essentilly I'm doing exactly as my values say. So essentially don't ever f**king say I stand for nothing, I never say that about you because for f**k's sake your a name on a forum to me, like I am to you. Wha the f**k would you know? I'm quite sure you've criticised me for judging people before, yet you go out and say shit like this. Yeah, nice one.
I wasn't berating you fro your choices, the only choice I was berating you for was for criticising those who don't choose to be such self-centred arrogant jerks who are up themselves enough to say to depressed people 'hey maybe you're depressed because you're not enough like me'.
Yeah ok, you wouldn't cast aside your dreams. Whatever, good for you. Doesn't mean others are depressed because their loved ones are more important to them than their dreams.
And yeah, shut the f**k up on that last point. You don't have a single idea what most of the people on here are like. I do plenty of people favours by being like I am. Stop preaching, people aren't wrong just becaue they're not like you.
To many people want to whinge and sook and seek sympathy of others.
I don't have time for weak willed people like that. Life is a gift, a great one at that, so enjoy it, make the most of it
Not everyone is like you. If you're arrogant enough to think you're above these so-called weak willed people then you also have to time to whinge about them like you're doing.
People on here weren't whinging, people were just sharing experience, which a lot of others found helpful. Don't be so high and mighty about it. We know you're better than everyone else.
