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Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

sensesmaybenumbed

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Don't die wondering didgi.

The wife and I didn't, and we're happy 12 years and a child down the track.

Except for battery powered kids toys.
Everyone who sent us one got the loudest one I could find in return.
 
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There's a difference between being friends and being friend zoned. You don't escape the latter.
 
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Didgi said:
Didn't think about this.. I demand respect :p

Playing it confidently and a bit slow atm, would ruin a lot of things if it was all to fall apart.
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Yeah, the early days are pretty weird.
Letting friends know was the strangest thing.
We actually kept it secret for about 4 months so we
could sort it out without having other people meddling.

So on that note, the only advice I can offer is: continue to be the same person with them.
 
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sensesmaybenumbed said:
Yeah, the early days are pretty weird.
Letting friends know was the strangest thing.
We actually kept it secret for about 4 months so we
could sort it out without having other people meddling.

So on that note, the only advice I can offer is: continue to be the same person with them.
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:lol: we hooked up in what I thought was a quiet corner of the uni tavern... our mates all cheered so loudly that security came over. I think the keeping it quiet boat has sailed.

Cheers mate, trying to be.

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Good luck, mate.

Are you keen on her?
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Oh yeah, for sure. Just wasn't sure if I wanted a relationship but that's changed.
 
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Didgi said:
Oh yeah, for sure. Just wasn't sure if I wanted a relationship but that's changed.
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Oh Didgi... You have so much to learn.

It's not the man who determines if or when they want a relationship. You are just a passenger, along for the ride. It's your missus who will provide all the directions.

Think of yourself as like the brake man in a two man bobsled team. You help to give the relationship a push at the start and then the woman does all the driving from there.

You just sit at the back, tucked up in a little ball, trying to be as aerodynamic as possible and hoping the sled doesn't crash into too many walls.

The cool bit is when she decides its game on for all the physical stuff. Every serious relationship I've ever been in, once that door is open, all you do for the first 3 to 6 months is root. Sooner or later, you settle into some regular patterns but you will never have so much sex again in the relationship so make sure you enjoy the ride at the start.
 
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Different kind of Rabbit said:
Oh Didgi... You have so much to learn.

It's not the man who determines if or when they want a relationship. You are just a passenger, along for the ride. It's your missus who will provide all the directions.

Think of yourself as like the brake man in a two man bobsled team. You help to give the relationship a push at the start and then the woman does all the driving from there.

You just sit at the back, tucked up in a little ball, trying to be as aerodynamic as possible and hoping the sled doesn't crash into too many walls.

The cool bit is when she decides its game on for all the physical stuff. Every serious relationship I've ever been in, once that door is open, all you do for the first 3 to 6 months is root. Sooner or later, you settle into some regular patterns but you will never have so much sex again in the relationship so make sure you enjoy the ride at the start.
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Well I think I've found the problem...
 
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Different kind of Rabbit said:
Oh Didgi... You have so much to learn.

It's not the man who determines if or when they want a relationship. You are just a passenger, along for the ride. It's your missus who will provide all the directions.

Think of yourself as like the brake man in a two man bobsled team. You help to give the relationship a push at the start and then the woman does all the driving from there.

You just sit at the back, tucked up in a little ball, trying to be as aerodynamic as possible and hoping the sled doesn't crash into too many walls.

The cool bit is when she decides its game on for all the physical stuff. Every serious relationship I've ever been in, once that door is open, all you do for the first 3 to 6 months is root. Sooner or later, you settle into some regular patterns but you will never have so much sex again in the relationship so make sure you enjoy the ride at the start.
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Amen brother Amen
 
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Different kind of Rabbit said:
Sooner or later, you settle into some regular patterns but you will never have so much sex again in the relationship so make sure you enjoy the ride at the start.
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Wrong.

You have forgotton one scenario.
Wait until your wife decides her biological clock is ticking and it's time to have kids. It's not nearly as fun as the intial f**k your brains out phase, because it is genuinely workman like... but in the time between the end of my honeymoon (Nov 28th 2012) and the end of Feb when we found out we were pregnant - i think my wife i probably had sex about 100 times. And im not even kidding, it was an average once a day minimum.
 
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