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Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

Misanthrope

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Women are confusing. This is not news to me.

Case in point: Haven't seen Michigan in three weeks due to her being busy. Understandably, our texting hasn't been quite as flirtatious and I was beginning to think she'd lost interest.

Even after clearing up her desire to go slow, I wasn't feeling much.

Then tonight, mid conversation, she sends me pictures of all the sexy underwear she just bought.

Women are annoying.
 

sportive cupid

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I'd say this girl is as keen on the dance as she is on the prize.
That's not confusing at all,it's pretty normal for women really.
 

Cliffhanger

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Okay so things are still going great. The sex is good and frequent, we enjoy each other's company, we talk through any problem etc but for some reason I'm scared out of my brain that I'm going to lose him or he's playing me. I feel guilty thinking it but I'm scared as hell. I keep trying to live in the moment But yeah my crazy gets the better of me. I'm scared.
 

Drew-Sta

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When you get burnt in relationships, you tend to be very gunshy after, Cliffy. I would keep encouraging you to press on and enjoy what you've got - time will address those anxieties :)
 

sportive cupid

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Okay so things are still going great. The sex is good and frequent, we enjoy each other's company, we talk through any problem etc but for some reason I'm scared out of my brain that I'm going to lose him or he's playing me. I feel guilty thinking it but I'm scared as hell. I keep trying to live in the moment But yeah my crazy gets the better of me. I'm scared.

Sounds like there's at least one problem you aren't talking through.
 

Misanthrope

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#1 - In reference to your repeated descriptions of African men as being superior in certain areas. A joke perhaps a tad out of date given your recent secondment to the 4 Corners.

#2 - I'm not sure where the confusion is. It's fun until somebody accidentally gets pregnant.
 

phantom eel

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Okay so things are still going great. The sex is good and frequent, we enjoy each other's company, we talk through any problem etc but for some reason I'm scared out of my brain that I'm going to lose him or he's playing me. I feel guilty thinking it but I'm scared as hell. I keep trying to live in the moment But yeah my crazy gets the better of me. I'm scared.
Breathe. Slowly. Then breathe again. And again. And again.

Repeat until you're not over-thinking/over-imagining your situation.
 

sportive cupid

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But it's terrific for the children since they get dual citizenship.This can be advantageous financially.
The cost of higher education in North America is enormous .Although recent stories in SMH about the govt possibly persuing HECS debts overseas are a bit worrying .
 
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Misanthrope

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But it's terrific for the children since they get dual citizenship.This can be advantageous financially.
The cost of higher education in North America is enormous .Although recent stories in SMH about the govt possibly persuing HECS debts overseas are a bit worrying .

:lol: This is true. There is always a silver lining.

The way I read it, it was only in situations where income or estate was valued above a certain level. Good luck to the Australian government trying to garnish my $12,000 a year :lol:
 

sportive cupid

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My granddaughter is only one month old ,but we are planning her education in AUS already...it seems the govt is always one step ahead of me :-(
 

Joker's Wild

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Really getting the shits with my missus lately

I have always been a bit of an "all over the place" kind of guy. Sometimes I miss things, leave the toilet seat up etc but over all I think I am a pretty responsible and reliable partner. For some reason she just cant let little things like this go and has to make a huge point about it. God forbid I tell her she is over reacting and unnecessarily focusing on shit that is pretty low on the list of things to be blowing up about. Its not like I deliberately do/not do this stuff and I am really trying to curb them but she just cant seem to cut me any slack.
 

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