Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

[muzby]

it's all about perspective.. Because you are not creating any major issues, the minor ones are now at the top of her list of gripes..

this causes her to focus more on these smaller things, blowing them out of proportion..

to fix this, i suggest you shave her head whilst she is asleep tonight.

 

[abpanther]

Really getting the shits with my missus lately

I have always been a bit of an "all over the place" kind of guy. Sometimes I miss things, leave the toilet seat up etc but over all I think I am a pretty responsible and reliable partner. For some reason she just cant let little things like this go and has to make a huge point about it. God forbid I tell her she is over reacting and unnecessarily focusing on shit that is pretty low on the list of things to be blowing up about. Its not like I deliberately do/not do this stuff and I am really trying to curb them but she just cant seem to cut me any slack.

f**ken amen man, I think it's just a female thing, there's always something they want to harp on about or try and fix, it's just their disposition

 

[Apey]

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[Didgi]

She thinks that because it's second nature for her to keep shit tidy, the same mindset has to apply to everyone, and so when you deviate from her way of thinking you must be deliberately doing something.

 

[Dragon2010]

Kind of like how their shit occupies 99% of the bathroom benchtop but you leave a piece of hair behind and you know about it?

 

[Misanthrope]

I'm glad it's not just me who has encountered these needlessly anal women. In addition to being an emotionally abusive cow, my ex was the master of ignoring the big picture to shit on the little things.

"Oh, you got me a bouquet of flowers for absolutely no reason? That's lovely! It's too bad you're a piece of shit for not washing your bowl this morning".

 

[Dani]

I'm the messiest merkin going around. Form and orderly line, boys.

 

[thorson1987]

Really getting the shits with my missus lately

I have always been a bit of an "all over the place" kind of guy. Sometimes I miss things, leave the toilet seat up etc but over all I think I am a pretty responsible and reliable partner. For some reason she just cant let little things like this go and has to make a huge point about it. God forbid I tell her she is over reacting and unnecessarily focusing on shit that is pretty low on the list of things to be blowing up about. Its not like I deliberately do/not do this stuff and I am really trying to curb them but she just cant seem to cut me any slack.

Could it be the kidlets stressing her out during the day?

I know if the kids have annoyed my missus during the day I'm going to cop it for any little thing that night.

 

[God-King Dean]

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haha, I say this all the time.

 

[God-King Dean]

Reading this thread comforts me, knowing my missus isn't the only satanic bitch, & that all women, at their very core, are monstrous parasites feeding off the misery of others.

 

[Joker's Wild]

it's all about perspective.. Because you are not creating any major issues, the minor ones are now at the top of her list of gripes..

this causes her to focus more on these smaller things, blowing them out of proportion..

to fix this, i suggest you shave her head whilst she is asleep tonight.

lol classic muz

f**ken amen man, I think it's just a female thing, there's always something they want to harp on about or try and fix, it's just their disposition

Its f**king infuriating tbh. Im a pretty relaxed guy but I find myself looking around going "shit, should I be cleaning this or tidying that". I bloody hate that its starting to cause me anxiety when it never used to

She thinks that because it's second nature for her to keep shit tidy, the same mindset has to apply to everyone, and so when you deviate from her way of thinking you must be deliberately doing something.

She is very much like this. If its not done her way then it is the wrong way.

Kind of like how their shit occupies 99% of the bathroom benchtop but you leave a piece of hair behind and you know about it?

Oh god yes.

Makeup and her hair left in the sink = ok
2 pieces of 1mm stubble in the sink = disgusting

Seriously wtf

I'm glad it's not just me who has encountered these needlessly anal women. In addition to being an emotionally abusive cow, my ex was the master of ignoring the big picture to shit on the little things.

"Oh, you got me a bouquet of flowers for absolutely no reason? That's lovely! It's too bad you're a piece of shit for not washing your bowl this morning".

The best one I had was she wouldnt eat the eggs bennedict I cooked because I forgot to empty the bathroom bin the night before.

Women are a total head f**k sometimes

 

[Joker's Wild]

Could it be the kidlets stressing her out during the day?

I know if the kids have annoyed my missus during the day I'm going to cop it for any little thing that night.

Maybe but its not an excuse Ill cop tbh

I look after the kids by myself every Saturday cause she either works or has her "mum time" shopping or visiting friends, and no matter how difficult they have been during the day I never take it out on her when she gets back.

 

[thorson1987]

Maybe but its not an excuse Ill cop tbh

I look after the kids by myself every Saturday cause she either works or has her "mum time" shopping or visiting friends, and no matter how difficult they have been during the day I never take it out on her when she gets back.

Hormones dude.

 

[Cena]

I think as much as I keep insisting it's about the lie not his age I think it is the latter. I can't see a future with him anymore I feel like he's going to change so much and want something entirely different in a year or so. I feel guilty thinking it.

R u a guy or girl?

 

[Cliffhanger]

Lol my boyfriend is incredibly messy. I tried to convince him just to stop eating in his room but he won't do it., i just accept that he comes home smashed from work and it's hard for him to follow eating etiquette when he's both incredibly tired and hungry at the same time, notw when I get in if there's food or wrappers I just take the plates to the kitchen or chick the wrappers in the bin, he loves that I do that small thing for him.

 

[timka4]

I've creeped this thread over the past few months and it's interesting seeing peoples take from flings, relationships too married life.

I've never been more scared of the future (from reading the married life) haha

 

[Cliffhanger]

I've had my fair share of good times and good fortune, but nothing beats being in love. I'm not usually an affectionate person, but with my boyfriend I am. Being in his arms is euphoric, honestly the most contented I have ever been is in his arms.

 

[dogslife]

I prefer the old Clifford tbh

 

[Misanthrope]

I'm the messiest merkin going around. Form and orderly line, boys.

But we want a clean woman to clean up after us :crazy:

I prefer the old Clifford tbh

Me too. This one is vomitous.

 

[Dani]

Yeah, didn't like my chances.