Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

[Cliffhanger]

So it's a greater respect for self that is the key?Try not to let a relationship dictate who you are and how happy you are.
That way it doesn't. After if you're with one guy or many.

Try to remember this as this relationship progresses.

I saw sex as two people using each other to satisfy a primal urge. When me and my BF got together i wanted to define the relationship like that but he wouldn't give up on trying to make it more. I don't define myself by the relationship, I don't define myself by my mistakes either. I know who I am, I am just grateful for what me and him have.

 

[soc123_au]

I saw sex as two people using each other to satisfy a primal urge. When me and my BF got together i wanted to define the relationship like that but he wouldn't give up on trying to make it more. I don't define myself by the relationship, I don't define myself by my mistakes either. I know who I am, I am just grateful for what me and him have.

I am hear-by revoking your penis.

 

[God-King Dean]

I give it a month....

 

[dogslife]

10 minutes?

What do you do for the other 9 minutes and 56 seconds?

 

[sportive cupid]

Check fcebook or LU I guess.

 

[Misanthrope]

Check fcebook or LU I guess.

She listens to Heaven and cries. She's already told us this.

 

[sportive cupid]

Ohh yeah.
..but that was in a post on here right ?

 

[Misanthrope]

Ohh yeah.
..but that was in a post on here right ?

Very true

 

[Misanthrope]

I'm officially giving up on pursuing Michigan. She's clearly not in the headspace to deal with anything remotely maturely, and is too caught up to just 'have fun'.

Got a text last night asking if it was true that I was planning to leave in September. I said I was open to staying, but hadn't made up my mind yet. Radio silence ever since.

Instead, I'm going to focus my attention on the three new and one old blip on the radar.

I've met the girl of my dreams: a super sexy French girl who adores Australia and Adventure Time. She calls me 'merkin' and shares my love of Shelly Beach and BMO. It's a pity I'm almost certainly going to be friend-zoned.

In the meantime, there's New York (old date), New Jersey, and New York #2 to consider. It's not all doom and gloom :lol:

 

[God-King Dean]

Just treat Michigan like shit.

Women like being treated like shit.

It's a scientific fact.

 

[dogslife]

I used to say that to my last girlfriend before she went on her killing spree.

 

[Misanthrope]

Just treat Michigan like shit.

Women like being treated like shit.

It's a scientific fact.

I've found this to be true when I just want to sleep with a girl, but if I actually like them (which I do), it seems counter-productive.

 

[Cliffhanger]

My boyfriend insists on maintaining friendships with his exes. He's been planning a trip to Thailand with one of them from before he met me. He asked me to go with him a month ago and i said i wouldn't be able to. I didn't know his ex and two of her siblings were also coming. Anyway he brought up yesterday he planned on going in three month s and i asked who he planned on going with and he told me. I expressed i was uncomfortable with it and he said he won't go. He didn't seem to mind. Anyway I feel bad but I'd be a f**king moron to let him. I trust him But she's his first love. f**k that

 

[God-King Dean]

Like? Women?

You some kind of queer or something?

 

[dogslife]

Sif you'd go to Thailand with a chick anyway.

Gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!

 

[Twizzle]

you generally get molested as you get off the plane over there

its not a place to BYO

 

[Misanthrope]

My boyfriend insists on maintaining friendships with his exes. He's been planning a trip to Thailand with one of them from before he met me. He asked me to go with him a month ago and i said i wouldn't be able to. I didn't know his ex and two of her siblings were also coming. Anyway he brought up yesterday he planned on going in three month s and i asked who he planned on going with and he told me. I expressed i was uncomfortable with it and he said he won't go. He didn't seem to mind. Anyway I feel bad but I'd be a f**king moron to let him. I trust him But she's his first love. f**k that

I don't think you're being unreasonable at all.

It's one thing for a partner to maintain casual friendships with exes. I'm still talking with most of mine and consider one of them to be a good friend.

But traveling with her is f**king weird.

 

[Dutchy]

I'm officially giving up on pursuing Michigan. She's clearly not in the headspace to deal with anything remotely maturely, and is too caught up to just 'have fun'.

Got a text last night asking if it was true that I was planning to leave in September. I said I was open to staying, but hadn't made up my mind yet. Radio silence ever since.

Instead, I'm going to focus my attention on the three new and one old blip on the radar.

I've met the girl of my dreams: a super sexy French girl who adores Australia and Adventure Time. She calls me 'merkin' and shares my love of Shelly Beach and BMO. It's a pity I'm almost certainly going to be friend-zoned.

In the meantime, there's New York (old date), New Jersey, and New York #2 to consider. It's not all doom and gloom :lol:

Is Michigan the one I was supposed to help you with?

I like fun. Haha.

Stay in China till at least Christmas asshat.

 

[Misanthrope]

Is Michigan the one I was supposed to help you with?

I like fun. Haha.

Stay in China till at least Christmas asshat.

I'm leaning more towards staying than leaving, tbh.

 

[dogslife]

Too many rabbits in China imo