Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

[timka4]

No Butch that's not a good idea.Remember,he's a 21yr old guy, he won't be saying anything,especially the truth.

Big generalisation :lol:. Talk to him about it

 

[Helmet Man]

Tell him your pregnant with quadruplets.

 

[sensesmaybenumbed]

Semi-octo mum!

 

[Cliffhanger]

U could always talk to him about this and see what he says

I did that he said not to overthink it and the stuff about wanting us to look really good first.

It's not like he's changed anything else, he's still being affectionate, treating me well, etc.

Being in a proper relationship is unfamiliar territory for me so I don't know what to make of it. I think I'll just give him a but more space and tell him to work out if this is what he wants or not.

Either way I'll deal. I love him and having him in my life but i can be happy without him, even if I'm a bit lonely.

 

[Cliffhanger]

If anything he's too honest with me now. He told me my arms and shoulders were too big and he likes his girl to look fit not shredded.

 

[Misanthrope]

If anything he's too honest with me now. He told me my arms and shoulders were too big and he likes his girl to look fit not shredded.

He's certainly a critical f**ker, isn't he?

I know we're only getting half of the story here, but the more you tell us about him lately - the more he sounds like a self-obsessed, shallow, and immature prat.

 

[Cliffhanger]

But at the same time he's really supportive in other ways. Like with me getting my license etc. It just annoyed me because I've never wished his body was another way.

 

[Misanthrope]

It comes across as a form of emotional blackmail for him to be criticising the way you look, and especially when you're in great shape.

If he doesn't like the shape you're in, then he should probably f**k off and find himself a shape he does like.

 

[God-King Dean]

This is what you do Cliffy.

Next time you are about to engage in coitus with him, you whip out a pair of shear scissors & put it over his ding dong. Say "You f**king tell me the truth you piece of shit, OR I'LL CHOP THIS OFF & YOU f**k YOU WITH IT! Do you hear me?! YOU BEEN f**kING!? WHO YOU BEEN f**kING!? THIS IS MINE!"

My girlfriend did that to me once, and our relationship has been great since. We even killed someone together.

 

[Misanthrope]

:lol:

GKD wins the thread.

 

[Drew-Sta]

:lol: Dean, that's teriffic advice!

 

[Cliffhanger]

I'll just emotionally detach myself from the relationship.

 

[Dutchy]

:lol:

 

[dogslife]

Are you bigger than him?

Ask him if he even lifts.

 

[dogslife]

This is what you do Cliffy.

Next time you are about to engage in coitus with him, you whip out a pair of shear scissors & put it over his ding dong. Say "You f**king tell me the truth you piece of shit, OR I'LL CHOP THIS OFF & YOU f**k YOU WITH IT! Do you hear me?! YOU BEEN f**kING!? WHO YOU BEEN f**kING!? THIS IS MINE!"

My girlfriend did that to me once, and our relationship has been great since. We even killed someone together.

:lol:

You will never find a better piece of relationship advice than this

 

[Twizzle]

I'll just emotionally detach myself from the relationship.

you may tell yourself that but at the end of the day you wont

it doesn't work that way

and he does sound a bit vain tbh

 

[butchmcdick]

oh lay off the guy

relax Cliff and enjoy the feelings you have now

 

[Apey]

We even killed someone together.

God bless you

 

[Misanthrope]

I'll just emotionally detach myself from the relationship.

I typically feel like when I make that decision, it's better to just end it.

Not saying you should end it, mind.

oh lay off the guy

relax Cliff and enjoy the feelings you have now

I feel like if she is having these feelings, she's probably not enjoying it as much as she'd like.

 

[Cliffhanger]

I think it's just his bad English to be honest.

We were talking today and I realised he was scared I wanted to become a she hulk. He just doesn't understand that you can't get really big without eating lots. He doesn't realise that strength training goes beyond hypertrophy.

Yeah i think he is a bit vain, but he's 21, he'll grow up. I think he just had some growing up to do.

I know longer feel like he's seeing someone else. I'll just have to trust him.