Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

[Dutchy]

f**k yeah. Will Hoggy still be around too?

 

[Misanthrope]

I only know the one Bunnies fan. He has a man-crush on Sir Gregory Inglis.

f**k yeah. Will Hoggy still be around too?

Should be. His contract is up in August, but I doubt he'll leave.

 

[Cliffhanger]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for three months. The other day he asked me not to post a photo of us on Facebook because he thought he looked bad. Later he said I could post it as long as i didn't tag him.

He won't put that we're in a relationship on Facebook.

Lately he's been saying that we spend too much time together.

I feel like he's seeing someone else. I don't know something doesn't feel right or maybe I'm just over thinking things.

 

[Twizzle]

you probably aint used to having a bf

just chill and enjoy the ride

and dont over analyse everything

 

[nick87]

He's not seeing someone else.
He's seeing at least 3 someone elses.

That's a fact, you can take it to the bank.

 

[Cliffhanger]

I can't not over analyse things. He went as far as to delete something i posted on his wall because it hinges at us being together.

 

[Dragon2010]

I can't not over analyse things. He went as far as to delete something i posted on his wall because it hinges at us being together.

Guys are strange. It could be the following:

• He's one of the quiet types who doesn't like to parade his relationship around on Facebook and instead takes it on the value and strength it's built on. (ie. I don't need Facebook to boast/show I'm in a relationship
• He's not ready to fully disclose it some people and go public on Facebook
• He's might be hiding something from you, whether it's another girl, or just hiding a lack of interest
• He's ashamed/embarrassed about something in relation to it
• He's just being weird, for the sake of it. We all have our moments

I say just be upfront with him if it's bothering you, no point letting it dwell endlessly in your mind. Question is. Are you ready to post it on Facebook? If he posted on your wall, what would you do? etc. If it were the other way around, how would you feel?

 

[Didgi]

Girlfriend got shitty at me a week back because I wouldn't put up a photo of us, it was just to avoid my entire family calling me up at the time. Quit over thinking things and be honest with him.

 

[Cliffhanger]

He says it's because he wants us to both be looking our best and he just hid the post and was going to unhide it.

 

[Dragon2010]

He says it's because he wants us to both be looking our best and he just hid the post and was going to unhide it.

Didigi raised a good point, point of having to explain shit to family is a burden.

 

[God-King Dean]

You're over analyzing things Cliffy.

Of course he's cheating on you. You just have to figure out whether it's male or female.

 

[umina panther]

But f**king the occasional dude is hardly cheating anyway

 

[dogslife]

:lol: I'm pretty sure Dean has a PhD in relationship psychology too, so that's pretty much gospel

 

[sportive cupid]

I'd take more from his comment about spending too much time together than the Facebook crap.

Maybe you are.Get another life girl!

 

[Apey]

Dean once made a girl poo, I shit you not. Wisdom.

 

[Misanthrope]

He sounds like he's either a vain twat or an insecure child or a cheater. Either way, f**k him off.

 

[sensesmaybenumbed]

Propose! That always fixes everything.

That, and getting pregnant.

 

[butchmcdick]

U could always talk to him about this and see what he says

 

[Misanthrope]

Actually, senses has the right idea. Pregnancy is a proven fix to any troubled relationship

 

[sportive cupid]

No Butch that's not a good idea.Remember,he's a 21yr old guy, he won't be saying anything,especially the truth.