Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

[sensesmaybenumbed]

Wow. That was dark.

(Pun intended)

Wow. That was dark.

(Pun intended)

Twins?

Also: dafuq happened in here?

 

[sensesmaybenumbed]

Ps: I love Leichhardt.


My shoes are still moist.

 

[adamkungl]

Sweet Jesus, what has he done to you? :lol: He must have a dick like a babys arm & can breath through his ears.

:lol: nice..

I don't think I could manage sex 4 times a day. I have other shit to do...

 

[Cliffhanger]

Sleeping with several different people in a narrow timeframe only ever made me feel disgusting. It fills me with shame now.

 

[sportive cupid]

I've never dated a black woman, but I've fooled around with one. I thought I wasn't attracted to them, but clearly drunk Misanthrope has different opinions.

In fairness to him, she was rather pretty in person too.

Oh dear.So are you saying black women aren't (usually) pretty?:sarcasm:

 

[sportive cupid]

Not to sound snide, but how does that fit with your romanticism and desire to find 'the one'? Marriage means, well in most peoples terms, that scenario. Just... less maybe :sarcasm:

That's right .
Waking up to the same face ...day in ...day out ...until the day you die....

Heaven ....:sarcasm:

 

[sportive cupid]

Sleeping with several different people in a narrow timeframe only ever made me feel disgusting. It fills me with shame now.

Well it shouldn't.
So long as what you are doing is by your own choice and you consider the feelings of others there is nothing wrong with having sex with multiple partners .The same test applies to just the one partner as well mind you.

You are beginning to sound a little like the born again Christian or the reformed smoker .

To each his own I say.Even the Mis way is ok if it fits with the above.

And there endith the lesson,

 

[Didgi]

Sleeping with several different people in a narrow timeframe only ever made me feel disgusting. It fills me with shame now.

What did it fill you with before?

Oh, right.

 

[Misanthrope]

Oh dear.So are you saying black women aren't (usually) pretty?:sarcasm:

Not at all. I'm just saying I generally haven't found a great many of them attractive. The same goes for Asian women, in general. I find them objectively quite pretty, but I am not attracted to them.

I like either Caucasian or Hispanic women, from my experience.

Sleeping with several different people in a narrow timeframe only ever made me feel disgusting. It fills me with shame now.

I was like that when I was younger. These days I don't see why anybody should be ashamed. As long as you're being careful, it can be a very gratifying and (strangely) uplifting feeling. I mean, having one person super attracted to you emotionally and physically is amazing - but if I can't have that, I'm happy to have multiple people who find me attractive enough to want to fool around.

 

[sportive cupid]

Good for you Mis.
It's not the multiple partners that makes you feel disgusting.Its the way you feel about yourself.
Until you learn to appreciate yourself as a person it doesn't matter whether it's one or fifty..the outcome will still eventually be the same.

 

[butchmcdick]

Sleeping with several different people in a narrow timeframe only ever made me feel disgusting. It fills me with shame now.

As a 39 yo guy with a 2 yo son who has been with his other half since 99 the memories of being with several different people in a narrow timeframe fills me with nostalgia for the good old days

I have a nostalgia Chubb now. Time to fap

 

[sportive cupid]

Don't worry Butch

Haven't you heard of the circle of life?

 

[butchmcdick]

Is that some sort of BBC thing ?

 

[sportive cupid]

Nooo.Why do you ask ?

 

[Cliffhanger]

Good for you Mis.
It's not the multiple partners that makes you feel disgusting.Its the way you feel about yourself.
Until you learn to appreciate yourself as a person it doesn't matter whether it's one or fifty..the outcome will still eventually be the same.

It's more the fact that a lot of them didn't treat me with respect. One guy i only slept with because i had weak boundaries and wasn't strong enough to say no, another had sex with me for ten minutes during most of which he had his hand over my mouth because he didn't want to wake his flatmate. Then he didn't even let me shower before kicking me out to go back to a party.

I let myself be treated in ways i shouldn't have.

 

[God-King Dean]

Strangely arousing.

 

[sportive cupid]

It's more the fact that a lot of them didn't treat me with respect. One guy i only slept with because i had weak boundaries and wasn't strong enough to say no, another had sex with me for ten minutes during most of which he had his hand over my mouth because he didn't want to wake his flatmate. Then he didn't even let me shower before kicking me out to go back to a party.

I let myself be treated in ways i shouldn't have.

So it's a greater respect for self that is the key?Try not to let a relationship dictate who you are and how happy you are.
That way it doesn't. After if you're with one guy or many.

Try to remember this as this relationship progresses.

 

[Apey]

another had sex with me for ten minutes

must have been a Kenyan

 

[butchmcdick]

must have been a Kenyan

Thats what I was thinking

Plus when I put my hands over a ladies mouth it's only so I can't hear them laughing or asking my if that's all I have

I am happy to furiously sissor Ellen De Generes style for a bit after I blow my wadd two minutes in.

 

[Joker's Wild]

Is that some sort of BBC thing ?

I think it was an invitation....