Ask LU - The relationship advice thread

[Twizzle]

So saw crag androtop at the climbing gym tonight, he was really tired, I asked him why he told me he had stayed up all night, I asked why he did that he said he was talking to a girl and it was a really good conversation. I smile and nod while I die a little on the inside and my heart breaks a little. It's 100 per cent over now.

so if crag androtop was No 1 in crag hag's shag bag, wouldn't crag hag prefer to shag crag androtop instead of having crag androtop nag rather than shag

 

[Cliffhanger]

You guys suck!

Whatever, time to move on. I'm smart, talented, deep, strong, funny and I'm damn pretty too, sure I'm flawed as f**k as well but soon enough I'll find a guy who can ground me a little and will appreciate me.

 

[Twizzle]

You guys suck!

Whatever, time to move on. I'm smart, talented, deep, strong, funny and I'm damn pretty too, sure I'm flawed as f**k as well but soon enough I'll find a guy who can ground me a little and will appreciate me.

exactly

but meanwhile we can still joke about it

 

[Cliffhanger]

It's too soon to joke about it.

 

[WYD]

You guys suck!

Whatever, time to move on. I'm smart, talented, deep, strong, funny and I'm damn pretty too, sure I'm flawed as f**k as well but soon enough I'll find a guy who can ground me a little and will appreciate me.

 

[Cliffhanger]

Read it already.

 

[WYD]

Read it already.

Really, any good?

It's one of the thousand e-books I have that I'll never read, I just skipped the win friends part and went straight to pick up guides.

I read Joe Navarro's book on speed reading body language, that's quite useful.

 

[Cliffhanger]

I liked it, he makes a lot of good points, but using his techniques sometimes feels a little manipulative.

 

[Jobdog]

Sounds beneficial.

 

[God-King Dean]

This is the way I see it.....

Woman is intended to please man. If man requires to please the woman in return, the necessity is less direct. Masterfulness is his special attribute. He pleases by the fact he is is strong.

If woman is made to please and be dominated, she ought to make herself agreeable to man to avoid provocation. Her strength is her charms and through them she should constrain him to discover his powers and make use of them. The surest way of bringing these powers into active operation is to make it necessary by her resistance. In this way self esteem is added to desire and the man triumphs in victory which the woman has compelled him to achieve.

Out of this relation comes attack and defence, boldness on one side and timidity on the other, and in the end the modesty and sense of shame with which nature has armed the weak for the subjigation of the strong.

 

[Raider_69]

It's too soon to joke about it.

I dont think you were his.... "type"

 

[Raider_69]

I liked it, he makes a lot of good points, but using his techniques sometimes feels a little manipulative.

NO! I dont believe it!
Lies.
There is now way a book entitled "How to win friends and influence people" is in anyway shape and/or form manipulative.

Slander....

/end sarcasm

 

[Didgi]

This is the way I see it.....

Woman is intended to please man. If man requires to please the woman in return, the necessity is less direct. Masterfulness is his special attribute. He pleases by the fact he is is strong.

If woman is made to please and be dominated, she ought to make herself agreeable to man to avoid provocation. Her strength is her charms and through them she should constrain him to discover his powers and make use of them. The surest way of bringing these powers into active operation is to make it necessary by her resistance. In this way self esteem is added to desire and the man triumphs in victory which the woman has compelled him to achieve.

Out of this relation comes attack and defence, boldness on one side and timidity on the other, and in the end the modesty and sense of shame with which nature has armed the weak for the subjigation of the strong.

:lol::lol: A therapist would have a field day with you GKD.

 

[IanG]

TYPE. Ya' know I keep hearing that word but really I don't what it's suppose to mean

 

[Didgi]

Girl called me funny today, obvs getting laid.

 

[adamkungl]

You're in

 

[Hallatia]

that's some serious philosophising you have done on the matter there, Dean

 

[IanG]

Girl called me funny today, obvs getting laid.

I get ladies saying that to me all the time. Doesn't really mean much.

 

[Didgi]

They're scared of your aura Ian. You're too powerful.

 

[dogslife]

Well you're obviously not funny didg, she clearly wants to jump your bones