"Coffs Harbour police are interviewing a woman who is extremely distressed. This (radio) report is very likely to aggravate that distress severely.
Don't know about that iggy... lets talk about Wayne Carey.iggy plop said:In the mid-ninties a now very successful AFL team had similar allegations (sexual misconduct) directed their way, but somehow it never became a big issue in the media. If word had of leaked it would be fair to say this team would not have enjoyed the success that eventually came their way. Obviously the AFL are good at covering up their devilish activities while rugby league is not.
That's why it pisses me off that these things are splashed across the front pages or aired on radio by geese like Hadley before anyone is proven guilty. The sport then suffers.
Pj, I agree what I wrote was a crock of shit if you put it out like that. But i did not explaing myself properley enough, so the bagging was warranted. What i meant to say was, if the lady was Lying to get these guys in trouble, if that was found to be the case, she should be severley punished.PJ said:"If true, Punish to the full extent. If false, Punish the woman"
Possibly the biggest crock I have ever read.
Police struggle enough to get women to go ahead with sexual assualt cases in court. Throw in the chance that they get charged themselves and that should really help things.
ibeme said:Firstly, I don't sympathise with anyone who commits sexual assault in any way, shape, or form. But unfortunately, if you were in a position in which girls through themselves at you all the time, offering themselves for sex, wouldn't your perception of them become tainted to a degree? In other words, if they were constantly offering themselves as sexual objects, wouldn't you begin to see them as sexual objects?
Just a thought.
PB said:ibeme said:Firstly, I don't sympathise with anyone who commits sexual assault in any way, shape, or form. But unfortunately, if you were in a position in which girls through themselves at you all the time, offering themselves for sex, wouldn't your perception of them become tainted to a degree? In other words, if they were constantly offering themselves as sexual objects, wouldn't you begin to see them as sexual objects?
Just a thought.
What if it is the players themselves, who are buying these girls drinks, chatting them up, leading them on?! People often use the excuse that there are females out there who throw themselves at the players, and indeed there are some women who to use a common term are "groupies".
But plenty of players go out to pick up becuase they are trying to impress their mates. You read what the Bar manager said about the behaviour of some of the players at that Bar on Saturday night. "Messiest night ever!"
It takes two to Tango, but not everyone wants to dance......
I have to disagree there. A case of - Two wrongs don't make it right. A person must be bound with some sort of moral obligation to society and identify what is right vs wrong.ibeme said:Firstly, I don't sympathise with anyone who commits sexual assault in any way, shape, or form. But unfortunately, if you were in a position in which girls through themselves at you all the time, offering themselves for sex, wouldn't your perception of them become tainted to a degree? In other words, if they were constantly offering themselves as sexual objects, wouldn't you begin to see them as sexual objects? Again, that's no excuse to take any lady further than she wants to go, but when you think of things in the context described in that article, it makes it easier for me to understand how guys could mis-read the girls' intentions.
Just a thought.
Catatonic_Omnivore said:I have to disagree there. A case of - Two wrongs don't make it right. A person must be bound with some sort of moral obligation to society and identify what is right vs wrong.ibeme said:Firstly, I don't sympathise with anyone who commits sexual assault in any way, shape, or form. But unfortunately, if you were in a position in which girls through themselves at you all the time, offering themselves for sex, wouldn't your perception of them become tainted to a degree? In other words, if they were constantly offering themselves as sexual objects, wouldn't you begin to see them as sexual objects? Again, that's no excuse to take any lady further than she wants to go, but when you think of things in the context described in that article, it makes it easier for me to understand how guys could mis-read the girls' intentions.
Just a thought.
Stgillaman said:Ibeme, your coping better than most dogs supporters.ibeme said:PB said:ibeme said:Firstly, I don't sympathise with anyone who commits sexual assault in any way, shape, or form. But unfortunately, if you were in a position in which girls through themselves at you all the time, offering themselves for sex, wouldn't your perception of them become tainted to a degree? In other words, if they were constantly offering themselves as sexual objects, wouldn't you begin to see them as sexual objects?
Just a thought.
What if it is the players themselves, who are buying these girls drinks, chatting them up, leading them on?! People often use the excuse that there are females out there who throw themselves at the players, and indeed there are some women who to use a common term are "groupies".
But plenty of players go out to pick up becuase they are trying to impress their mates. You read what the Bar manager said about the behaviour of some of the players at that Bar on Saturday night. "Messiest night ever!"
It takes two to Tango, but not everyone wants to dance......
That's what I mean. When so many girls throw themselves at you, you're judgement or perception of women may alter to see them as sex objects, hence you treat them as sex objects. That includes buying drinks, chatting up etc. with the view that this is what these women want, and that it will end in sex. Even though those girls may not have thrown themselves at them, the players may still think that that's what they're their for, based on past experience. I'm not condoning it, just trying to understand how their judgement in these situations can be so warped.
But the players weather women throw themselves at them or not, should know better, than to have Group Sex at a Local Hotel, in front of people who could see. Sure they were 150m away from the main Accomadation, but do they think no one else gets up at 6am, and heads towards the pool ?
Last year *it is alleged* ( source paper today ), 1 bloke took a woman back, she woke up having sex with another, whilst another was sitting their Perving on proceedings.
It's a hero mates thing. Something the club warned them about.
They know they are in the spotlight, and can't put a foot out of order, yet players from all clubs do. But this is going way too far.