she was not treated like a professional while she was performing her duties in a professional manner.
The way Gayle treated her was condescending. Instead of treating her like a professional reporter, he treated her like a bimbo at the pub whose questions were to be treated with contempt. His response (or compliment in your twisted view) was the ultimate disrespect.
There's a time and place for dickhead behaviour like that, and during a live game of cricket is neither the time, nor the place.
If it was such a compliment, you'd think Mel would've appreciated it.
Yet she didn't.
That in itself explains how it was most definitely not a compliment.
WATCHING the media explode after Chris Gayles failed attempt to pick up Mel McLaughlin, I quickly realised Im on the wrong side of the feminist outrage machine again.
The tendency for people to race straight for the another example of the sexism thats rife in todays society argument at times like this bores me to tears.
Ive worked in media more than 14 years with most of my time spent at male-dominated organisations and in male-dominated shows and when things like this happen and people start claiming were all just poor victims of a system that refuses to accept us, it does nothing to help the situation.
Theres no doubt there are blokes in every industry, not just sport and media, who act like idiots to women.
Watching Chris Gayle, I didnt see a powerful bloke preying on a weak woman. I saw the classic guy whos drunk his own Kool-Aid and has the mistaken belief that he makes all women giddily nervous.
Guys like this get some ridiculous pleasure out of making a woman feel uncomfortable and its not predatory its pathetic.
Ive met a million of these blokes in my career and when I watched Mel on the receiving end of that comment, I was disappointed. Not because of what Chris Gayle said but because she missed a golden opportunity to say something back that would mean hed never make that same mistake again.
I believe a womans reaction to a situation like this is more important and effective in stamping out the behaviour than all the whinging about the patriarchy combined.
When Ive been in these situations Ive never found them belittling or demoralising. Ive found them empowering.
I used to delight in these moments because I knew the behaviour I was on the receiving end of gave me the perfect ammunition to put these idiots in their place.
I never once thought Oh no! This person thinks Im less than them. I always thought Oh wow! This person is so emotionally immature that tearing them apart is going to be easy ... and fun.
In my career Ive been propositioned, grabbed on the arse at the photocopier (some mens propensity for cliche truly knows no bounds), I even had one guy take all his clothes off in our office because I wasnt paying him any attention.
People talk about women in these situations as being victims but in all these scenarios Ive never felt more powerful because I could see these were weak, insecure, emotionally unintelligent men and putting them in their place would be an absolute cake walk.
Calling this a wider social or gender issue unfortunately doesnt do anything to change the behaviour of blokes like this. All it does is confirm their naive and antiquated suspicions that were all just silly little women who cant take a joke.
Mel said herself shes never experienced anything but respect from men on the sidelines so this was a surprise for her. Shes not making a big deal about it and has said countless times shed like to move on, but there are so many people who love getting outraged on a victims behalf regardless of whether the victim is outraged herself.
By jumping straight on the inequality bandwagon were painting a whole gender with a brush thats coloured by a minority. For the vast majority of men Ive worked with its made absolutely no difference that Im a women. For those who it did matter to, they quickly changed their minds when they realised I wasnt going to take the rubbish they were dishing out.
I shouldnt have had to earn their respect that way but the reality is that once they realised I was a worthy opponent, they looked at me differently and never tried it again.
As women, we need to stop seeing ourselves as victims and start realising how much power we have to tell blokes who try and belittle us to grow the hell up.
I used to delight in these moments because I knew the behaviour I was on the receiving end of gave me the perfect ammunition to put these idiots in their place.
Don't think Gayle would have cared too much, he would have been balls deep inside some lady after the game.
Well said MU . End of thread . That covers all that was wrong with the interview.
One thing is for sure: Athletes won't be hitting onto Mel in 10 or so years time when her skin becomes saggy, she has developed Rebecca Wilson-type wrinkles, and the tv networks replace her with a 20 to 30-something year old female
Mel said herself she?s never experienced anything but respect from men on the sidelines so this was a surprise for her.
I?ve met a million of these blokes in my career and when I watched Mel on the receiving end of that comment, I was disappointed. Not because of what Chris Gayle said but because she missed a golden opportunity to say something back that would mean he?d never make that same mistake again.
I believe a woman?s reaction to a situation like this is more important and effective in stamping out the behaviour than all the whinging about the patriarchy combined.
When I?ve been in these situations I?ve never found them belittling or demoralising. I?ve found them empowering.
I used to delight in these moments because I knew the behaviour I was on the receiving end of gave me the perfect ammunition to put these idiots in their place.
I never once thought ?Oh no! This person thinks I?m less than them?. I always thought ?Oh wow! This person is so emotionally immature that tearing them apart is going to be easy ... and fun.?
Cricketer Chris Gayle, already facing a barrage of criticism over inappropriate remarks to a female television reporter, allegedly indecently exposed himself to a woman during a Sydney training session at last year's World Cup.
The Australian woman, who was working around the West Indies team in Sydney, has detailed the incident to Fairfax Media. In the course of her work she entered the team dressing room to get a sandwich as she hadn't eaten all day, thinking the players were on the field training.
Instead, she found Gayle in the room with one other player. Gayle was wrapped in a towel, which she says he pulled down to partially expose his genitals to her while saying to her: "Are you looking for this?"
It is understood West Indies team manager Richie Richardson was told about the incident, but Gayle was not named. Richardson then sent an email to all West Indies players demanding women working around the team be treated with respect.
The new revelations came as the Melbourne Renegades announced they would fine Gayle $10,000 for his controversial live interview with Channel Ten's Mel McLaughlin on Monday night. Gayle asked an uncomfortable McLaughlin if she wanted to come out for a drink with him, before quickly adding "don't blush, baby".
On Tuesday morning, Gayle delivered a half-hearted apology and said his comments had been "blown out of proportion". Renegades chief executive Stuart Coventry described his comments as a "one-off".Several other female journalists also came forward to detail inappropriate comments or unwelcome advances by Gayle.
The female employee involved in last year's incident does not want to be identified, but has explained she was motivated to tell her story "in support of [Channel Ten reporter] Mel McLaughlin last night, and to support the many other women working as career professionals in sport who shouldn't have to put up with this kind of treatment".
Hilarious anyone would think there's a retort that would have meant Gayle would never do it again - seriously :lol:
The female employee involved in last year's incident does not want to be identified, but has explained she was motivated to tell her story "in support of [Channel Ten reporter] Mel McLaughlin last night, and to support the many other women working as career professionals in sport who shouldn't have to put up with this kind of treatment".