A little back, someone said we have a long way to go which is completely untrue.
If you have any experience with women you will know that women are the ones that give it away. It is role of gender in relationships. Guys are the ones that want to hit it off, girls are the ones that choose whether or not they want to hit it off with that guy. Those roles will hardly ever change. Why do you think a girl with hardly any personality can get a root from wherever, yet a guy with hardly any personality has potential to be the next 40 year old virgin?
So in lieu of that statement, if a girl agrees to be bedded by four guys, that makes her quadruply a s**t? If a guy beds four girls, then he must have something going for him if four girls are keen at the same time.
Don't hate the player, hate the game.
The only way this will change in society is if that changes. And it's not going to.