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"I will never forget..."

Knightmare

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my 2007 posts look so 'didgiesque'...


Hey bro, makes two of us. Amazing what a couple of years can do, aye? Here's just ONE updated memory for starters:

* This week in November 2008 which eclipsed the one I mentioned earlier as the best week of my entire life. It started out with our final year graduate film screening at the Regent on Queen St. Seeing the animated short film I made play out on the big screen, without a hitch, was such an amazing feeling of relief. Then getting wasted afterwards with everyone was awesome too!

A couple of days after I went to Global Gathering at Doomben racecourse with these mates of mine from where I lived. Even though it pissed down for about 20 minutes and half the place turned into a mud-pit, it was an awesome day, just listening to all these different acts with my mates and chilling out, dancing and knowing it was probably the last time we'd all go out like this. Also had the best pinger I've ever dropped- was buzzing for at least 8 hours! Got talking to this cute chick in a mad Asian-looking floral dress who was 27 but looked about 20. She was pinging as well and we wound up chatting about all sorts of random stuff with my arms around her. Then she took me by the hand and we found a quiet spot and sat down to continue chatting, cuddling up while I kissed her over and over as we talked. I remember thinking "So this is why they call it 'The love drug'." :lol: Got her number and we caught up again about 2 weeks later.

A couple of days later I took my mountain bike for one last bash through Daisy Hill Forest, Mt Cotton, Priestly and all the way to Beenleigh before catching the train home. When I arrived back at mine I logged on to the uni website to check if I had any e-mails, when there suddenly there were my final grades, showing that I got credits in all three-subjects. F**k yeah!

The next day I went to Movieworld with some mates and that night ended up back in Brissy with them. We found a bar and got quite smashed before having one of the best drunken walks of my life back to a mates' flat in St Lucia. I remember us tramping through West End and Highgate Hill with only a vague idea where we were going, having these crazy piss-fuelled discussions about everything from women to left-wing politics to Hitler!

The above all took place in the last week of November 2008.
 

Knightmare

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Now for some much shorter ones, and not all good:

* When Dani came up to Sydney for the NRL fan day in 2008 and I suggested she go out with some mates of mine who were hitting up the city that night for a friends' 21st. She was reluctant to go but I insisted they'd be cool with it. 2 years later, she is involved in a long-term relationship with one of those mates of mine and living in the Harbour City!

* The first time I was 'with' a girl. And feeling disappointed afterwards because there was someone who wasn't at this party that I still would rather have been with, even if absolutely nothing happened. I still remember going to sleep on my mates' couch that night feeling like I had still ultimately missed out.

* The train trip to Melbourne with Dani's current other half. We spent all day ripping on a mutual friend of ours and the stuff he comes out with and laughing at all this funny s**t we were coming up with. To this day we both regret not taking a pen and a book on that trip so we could have written down all the stuff we were thinking up.

* This winter Sunday afternoon last year when I went out for a drive and took some scenic photos at Bouddi lookout, then sitting in my car later on thinking about all the responsibilities I had in my life and for the first time thinking "I am a man now". And believing it without any doubt whatsoever.

* The first time I raced at Kingston Park raceway, getting into a dual with the lap record holder there in the final and almost winning had I not slid on dirt thrown up by a backmarker on the second last lap.

* The night I was trying to sleep on the couch of a mates' flat only to have it interrupted by a mate (the same one Dani's b/f and I were ripping on earlier) and one of his friends having a three-way with this dirty, dirty girl on the other couch in the pitch dark, completely unaware that I was still awake!

* Being 10 metres from the stage at AC-DC earlier this year and wondering if every show I ever saw for the rest of my life would be an anti-climax compared to this one? Then seeing Faith No More perform at Soundwave less than 24 hours later and happily being proven wrong!

* Packing all the belongings I wanted to take with me into my car and leaving my family on the Central Coast to move here to Brisbane a couple of months ago. I'd lived away from home before, but that was because of uni. This time around it was all my doing and after only a year back with my folks, I knew it was time to leave for good.

* At work last month, getting a message from a Dragons supporting mate commenting on how good St George played before ending it with 'f**k the f**king Storm aye' and me asking him what he meant. He sent a message back saying 'Haven't you heard about what happened to the Storm?' and I didn't because we don't have radio at work. Then the next message he sent alerted me to one of the biggest scandals in NRL history. Then driving home that night, it was all they were talking about on the radio.
 
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Dani

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Now for some much shorter ones, and not all good:

* When Dani came up to Sydney for the NRL fan day in 2008 and I suggested she go out with some mates of mine who were hitting up the city that night for a friends' 21st. She was reluctant to go but I insisted they'd be cool with it. 2 years later, she is involved in a long-term relationship with one of those mates of mine and living in the Harbour City!

This. :D
 
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Some Random ones
-At the very end of the year 12 picnic, after a 3 hour water fight, teachers were leaving, so they wanted to take everything with them, including a huge container full of Ice (for drinks). Before the left, 5 people grabbed the container, and went after a mate of mine. My mate was doing a great job getting away, until 4 of us smashed him to the ground. 15 seconds later he was covered in Ice, and the rest of us were cheering and it was hi-5s all around. Probably the last hurrah as a grade we had (minus a disappointing formal), so it was a great finish (for almost everyone).

-When I had mates around last year watching the footy show. The fake wedding proposal. As the guy proposed,about 4 of us said collectively, "I always want to see the girl say no in one of these." Even though it was fake, I must admit, it was bloody classic

-Getting thrown out of the pub on my 19th birthday. When my mate came out to drive me home I remember saying something to the bouncer at the door (to let him back in when he gets back, because he wasn't drinking). The only think I don't remember is exactly what I said, but I remember my mate pulling on my shirt straight after to get me to hurry up. Apparently what I said sounded a lot like a threat, and if I lingered the bouncers would've kicked my arse.

-In year 8, we had a class moved to the library. Everyone remembered except one guy (who was a special case), and he started crying about it (weird I know, but we were used to it). About 5-6 of my mates started ripping into him, I was near them, but talking to someone else. A year 12 prick thought I was ripping on the poor kid, so he grabbed me around the neck and swung me around back first into a wooden door. Everyone in the class went silent and stared at me, then were shocked that I got up laughing (I still don't know how that didn't hurt me), when I was finished year 12 the hole my head made in the door was still there.

-One lunchtime in year 9 a group of us were telling racist jokes to each other, everytime one of my mates would try and get one in, the deputy principal would arrive and shut him down. When she emerged, we would move, he tried about 3 times, but every time he started, the deputy emerged.

-Winning an award at year 10 grad, and the principal announced it by calling me by the wrong name (Mixed my name up with the guy under me on the school roll. His first name, my last name).
 

Didgi

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Good bump btw Didgi!

Thanks Tim. Is interesting to see how things have changed!

For the discussion + impact they caused afterwards, I will probably never forget where I was when:

* I heard Steve Irwin had died. Was walking around the corner of the office towards the grade 6 classrooms. The awful yellow mouldy walls, the broken pipe, the rattly old aircon, and overhearing someone say he ahd died. Then getting into class and the teacher telling us, and being shocked but not really sad.

* I heard Michael Jackson had died. Got up about 10:30, Saturday I think it was. Sat down to watch the game of footy I had taped from the night before, turned on 'Sunrise' or some such show and saw. Watched the channel for the next hour just going 'oh, my, God.'
 

Monk

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Wow geez, just spent a fair while reading this whole thread, thinking of so many things.

But the main couple.

- Seeing my Grandfather die, and just bursting into uncontrollable tears

- Sitting for for 3 hours with my dog after my parents told me she had a stroke, she was put down later that morning. (Similar to Didgi's story, kind of weird)

- The 2002 Grand Final

- Finding out my ex-girlfriend was now with one of my best mates after dumping me the night before.

- State of Origin 1 2010 with 13 of my closest mates.

- The first time i jacked off

- When i first heard that the storm had cheated.

- In year 7, i dumped the now hottest girl in school because she didnt sit next to me in science. (more of a " in hindsight" one)

- The day my mates girlfriend poured a bottle of vodka into my 1L bottle of OJ (which was about a quarter full), and i called her a whore and told her that she ruined my OJ. I still drank it though.
 
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Some footy ones for me
-Winning the 2005 Grand Final. Especially Patty Richards scoring his miracle try, after going all week not expecting him to play. Even though he was just a winger, when they announced he was playing, I just had a feeling that we wouldn't lose the game. Before the game started and they said that he wasn't a sure thing to play, that was when I got nervous, but once he ran out I just knew we would win, even when we were down.

-Beating the Dragons to get to the big one. Probably the hardest game I've ever watched. Although we lead all the way, it just never felt comfortable. Whenever we looked like we would pull away the Dragons put another try back on us. When that fulltime siren went, I was so relieved that the match was over and we'd won. Funnily enough though, the Sunday leading up to the Eels/Cowboys semi, all I could think was "Parra's going to win the comp." Glad to know that wasn't the case.

-Final round 2007. Needed a win to finish in the top 8. Just over 10 to go and Chris Lawrence scores to make it 24-12, then just watching it all fall apart. It was tough, but the phone call 5 minutes after full time from my mate who's a mad knights fan was even tougher.

-Final round 2004, similar story, beat the Knights for a top 8 spot. We just couldn't do it. Phone call following the match was tough. Was my birthday that weekend, had all the family around. I didn't think to talk on the phone in private, couldn't tell him what I really thought until Monday at school.

-Benji stepping all them Sharks at Toyota Park in 2005. Amazing

-Billy Idol at the 2002 Grand Final "We'll be right back when we get some POWER!"

-2006 Tri-Nations final. Great game of football. Came to the game not really worrying about the result, but after hearing a kiwi team (they were about 15 years old) carrying on before the match I just suddenly got fired up for a great Australian victory, and that's what we got. Also, sitting in the car park with my dad for 40 minutes after the game, and not moving. 80 minutes to get home, half of it was spent in the car park.

-Joey's origin performance game 2, 2005. I like many doubted his selection, but like a true champion made every nay-sayer eat their words.
 

Chook Norris

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flicking through the tv channels at Nelson Bay in 02 and seeing the score 30-8.. but not realising what sport or the game was..

playing my first game of 'footy' ever in lunch time at primary school.. and somehow scoring a double
 

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I will never forget the time I made a bet with Forum Idiot that Souths would win the spoon in 2002, only for the Dogs to get raped of their points.

The loser had to run around Timmah. At first I thought it'd only take 15 minutes.

7 years later I finally finished the trip.
 

McLovin

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When i beat the little fella for the first time to see what all the hype's about...
 

Martli

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Watching Grandma battle with dementia and seeing her everytime I visit in the state she's in, gets me.

Its sh*t eh. My nana is in early stages of dementia, asks you the same question over and over again, can't take her medication at the right times, barely eats but the worst bit: flat out refuses any help. She lives by herself and pretty much just watches TV all day, doesn't know what day it is, has no desire to do anything really: she just wants to maintain the status quo. Doctors have said she needs to stop driving (she needed to stop driving years ago) but she still does. I could go on but she's her own worst enemy. Just really f**king sad when you remember the person she used to be.

She needs to go to a rest home, problem is she's a chain smoker and most of the rest homes with smoking areas are terrible. It's a sh*t situation and my mum has to deal with the bulk of it which isn't good for her at all.
 

Dani

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I'ma add some too.

- When i heard about the Storm thing. It was a terrible day at work, i'd had my bosses in and they tore shreds off me. I hadn't looked at my phone in about 5 hours since lunch, i had 16 missed calls... Then the days after. Feeling shock, anger, resentment...mostly anger.

- The 06, 07, 08 and 09 Grand finals.

- The feeling that all of the above has been taken away.

- When i moved in with my boyfriend.

- The first time he sat me down and wanted to know everything about diabetes, just in case. How to do my needles, what to do if something happened ect ect. Asked question after question. I'll never forget cos it showed me just how much he cared.

There is more, but i don't wish to share publicly.
 

DB

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Remember when my Aunty died.... spent all day at the hospital as her cancer had taken a turn for the worse- some reason didn't have to go to school, may of been yr 12 exams. We ended up going to the footy that night at Kogarah oval. It was Dragons vs Bulldogs on Friday night footy back in 2006..... was sitting at the footy with my two cousins and then got a call from my cousins sister saying come quick..... piss bolted from Kogarah oval to the hospital, and got to say goodbye. Remember just sitting on the floor in the hospital hall, just staring. Not crying or anything. But just staring at the wall.
 

Knightmare

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I'ma add some too.

- When i heard about the Storm thing. It was a terrible day at work, i'd had my bosses in and they tore shreds off me. I hadn't looked at my phone in about 5 hours since lunch, i had 16 missed calls... Then the days after. Feeling shock, anger, resentment...mostly anger.

- The 06, 07, 08 and 09 Grand finals.

- The feeling that all of the above has been taken away.

- When i moved in with my boyfriend.

- The first time he sat me down and wanted to know everything about diabetes, just in case. How to do my needles, what to do if something happened ect ect. Asked question after question. I'll never forget cos it showed me just how much he cared.

There is more, but i don't wish to share publicly.


I agree, no need to talk about cask wine or durries or Nowra. Or gummysmiles for that matter :p.

On a serious note, this is an awesome thread. I haven't skipped a single bit of anybody's posts, there are some great stories on here! I thought of some more recent ones today at work:

* The Crusade road-trip to Melbourne last year. Too many reasons!

* Mark Webbers' first Grand Prix win. I felt hopeful seeing he was on pole, and my stepdad and I watched the start of the race. Then when Mark got the drive-through penalty my stepdad said "Oh well, there's his race blown." and went to bed. But I wanted to make absolutely sure, so I waited to Webber to crash or spin or have his engine blow up. He was head and shoulders above anyone else that day, when he took the chequered flag I had a massive smile. Hearing him yell "YOU F**KING BEAUTY!" on the pit radio during the victory lap was classic! :lol: I drank the rest of a bottle of wine in celebration.

* The first time I read this Tim Winton short story 'The Turning'. The book (of the same name) was a Christmas present from Mum, it was Boxing Day and I couldn't go to bed without finding out what happened to Raelene. My family all wanted to go to sleep and turn the lights out so I ended up having to go into the hotel bathroom, turn the light on and sit on the toilet to finish the story! It was what inspired me to pen this story I'd been thinking of writing for a while.

* Going to Queen St Hungry Jack's in the early hours with a mate the day after we finished 2nd year at uni. We'd been at Treasury and we were both smashed and hungry as anything. I don't know whether it was these factors or they really were having a good night flipping the burgers, but it was one of the best meals we'd ever eaten! We kept saying "This is so f**king good!" in between mouthfuls. If you have ever seen 'Harold and Kumar go to White Castle' when they finally eat White Castle, that's how orgasmic it was for us!

* Watching Paul Kelly play a live version of his song 'Careless' at the 2008 Concert in The Domain. I'd heard this song many times before that afteroon, but never as beautiful as he played it then and there. It was dreamlike and almost hypnotic, like falling in love with a song the first time you hear it. Unfortunately I haven't been able to find a vid of him playing it the way he did that day. :(.

* Australia v Uruguay, 2005 WC Qualifier. I was at a mates' flat on the Gold Coast and began to wonder if it was same old same old for the Socceroos and maybe Uruguay were our nemesis? When it got to penalties my whole body was shaking. Then when Aloi$i stepped up and scored THAT penalty- well it was pretty much like all those youtube vids you've seen where people are going crazy. I remember everyone in the room leaping about and hugging anyone they could find, and I think someone may have even jumped over the couch? But those 2 minutes is just a blur to me now.

* Walking home from a mates' place at 6am after Australia got knocked out of the 2006 World Cup. It was freezing cold outside and I had to walk for 25 minutes, dwelling on the fact that we'd just been knocked out by a diving pack of Italian merkins, and a s**t refereeing decision. If Australia had won, the glow of victory would have kept me warm, but no, I had to suffer the winter chill and the pain of an unfair defeat. I have hated the Azzuri ever since, and look forward to them getting screwed over in South Africa!

* Screenwriting class, 3rd year at uni. In 4 years of university, this was the class that inspired me the most. Our lecturer was a guy named Charles, who has written for series like 'Blue Heelers' and 'All Saints'. I couldn't wait for the next class to listen to Charles tell more industry stories and fill our heads with all sorts of scenarios and possibilities. I got a good mark for my pilot episode draft, and I think it's what helped me rediscover my passion for screenwriting.

* Origin 3, 2005. I was in Cairns for the Uni Games, about half the guys on my League 7's team were NSW boys so we rocked up to the pub decked out in our gear, faced painted sky blue. We got quite tanked. We joined with the other Blues fans there in singing over the top of the Qlders. This chick wrote 'GO NSW' across my arse in permanent marker and I returned her the favour (hey, it seemed like a great idea at the time!). Everytime NSW scored we all linked arms and jumped around singing "Hey, hey (insert try-scorers' name) Ooh! Ahh! I wanna kno-ow (woah!) How you scored that try?" After the game, when Joey was being interviewed we started chanting "Joey! Joey!" and got on our knees, bowing in the direction of the big screen. F**king great night.

* This adderall binge I did one night. I bought some pills from a chick who lived in the complex I lived at on the Gold Coast, took the lot of them that evening, drank 3 Canadian Club and Colas' for added kick, then waited. I stayed up all night, filling a notebook with my thoughts on life, with this scrawled, spidery handwriting that comes when your brain is going 3 times faster than your hand can write! I felt so positive and like I had all the answers to whatever problems I had in life, like I had them all sorted. I saw the sun rise still feeling wonderful. I still have that notebook to this day, too! :lol:

* Robyn's (an old schoolfriend of my Mums') funeral in February 2007. Both Robyn's daughters got up to give their eulogies and began crying towards the end of them, but they got through it. They were both in their late 20's with children of their own, but they really loved their mother and I felt so bad for them. However, I wasn't at all close to shedding tears. Mum went up and spoke very well, then another of Robyn's friends got up to speak, a middle aged woman like my Mum. But about halfway through her speech, she started crying, she tried to go on talking but she couldn't do it. Without hesitation or a single word, Mum stood up from her seat, went over to this woman, put her arm around her and turned her away from the lecturn. I was so moved by that gesture that I nearly lost it. There's nothing more I need to say about my Mum. Funnily enough, Robyn's funeral was in the same place my Uncle Nicks' was (see my original post in this thread to get the coincidence of it).

* Some of the stuff my stepdad has said to me these past 19 years. If I ever have a son of my own I will never say the same things to him, ever. Sometimes it's not until years later that you fully realise how emasculating a persons' words were to you.

* A radio station one day asking people to call in with the most shocking thing they remember finding out. There was something I thought of, but it wasn't mainstream enough for me to think people would know who I was talking about, so I didn't bother calling. Then the first call through to the talkback hosts was a guy who said the most shocking news he'd ever heard was when he found out Ayrton Senna had been killed. I straight away had that feeling you get when you realise that you and a total stranger were both thinking of exactly the same thing. I couldn't believe it.

* Kind of related to the above post, the first time I watched this video on youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eopcuO_15kw

If you follow motor racing or have done it at any level yourself, you will appreciate just how fast he is driving and how hard he is pushing it in this lap. About halfway through I thought "We are never going to see that again" and felt such a strong sense of loss I nearly broke down. This was 14 years after his death. The other thing about this vid is how much it reminds me of times when I have been racing- the same instincts, the same car control, that same determination to go quickly and absolutely push it that you cease to give a f**k about anything else in the world for that brief period of time other than being the fastest, the best. It's one of those things where I feel as if I have personally known someone I never even met, like I got inside of their head or something.

* A friends' 26th birthday earlier this year. It was at The Ivy (a club in Sydney) and we had this long D&M at one point later in the night. We were both fairly tipsy and I don't remember everything that was said, but I do remember feeling like I understood exactly what she was talking about and where she was coming from. It's one of the only times I have ever felt like that with another person. The funny thing is, about a month later we were out in town for my farewell drinks and later on we went into a sex shop in the 'Cross and the bloke behind the counter thought this same chick and I were going out. What makes it interesting is that there were other people with us...
 
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McLovin

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I'd have to say the most orgasmic sporting moment was when Cahill slotted in that first goal against Japan, and then we followed up with 2 more. I remember being at the pub at around 3 in the morning with 40 other people. We all went nuts and started trashing the place when we scored. Was a dour first 80 minutes...
 

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I'd have to say the most orgasmic sporting moment was when Cahill slotted in that first goal against Japan, and then we followed up with 2 more. I remember being at the pub at around 3 in the morning with 40 other people. We all went nuts and started trashing the place when we scored. Was a dour first 80 minutes...

This.
 
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