Im not saying Lafai should of been charged as it is obviously unfair to give an opinion without all the facts but if I just generalise it by saying in most cases if police are called to a residence by neighbours, and it’s found after a heated verbal one of the parties have punched holes in the wall then the offender must be arrested for malicious damage. It’s a crime and police can be found negligent not only for their actions but also for inaction. If proven the poi will not only be charged but will also served with avo. The conditions of which can have restrictions on the perpetrator. which would undoubtedly include the poi is not to be around any of his family members within 12 hours of consuming alcohol and can extend to restricting the poi from going back to his home or even have a contact clause.
After reading some posts I get the vibe that some feel punching holes in your walls is excusable if someone is having a mental health breakdown, which of course is completely wrong if it occurs in situations like I have explained above. Instead of ignoring criminal behaviour the onus is on the Poi to seek help and it’s seen as necessary and/or beneficial upon sentencing if he/she has shown steps to address his/her mental health or alcohol/drug or anger issues.
I don't think anyone has excused his behaviour at all. I for one have just expressed my disgust at some of the name calling and blatant disrespect people have shown in this forum.
If people had read the articles, they would have known that Tim's irritation started BEFORE any alcohol was consumed. The first reports in the media caused further stress to the situation leading to alcohol consumption which in turn escalated the situation.
If anybody actually follows him on any of the social media platforms, they would know that 95% of his posts show him with his kids or his extended family. He's obviously a very strong family man and this whole situation appears to be a radical break from the norm for him.
These 2 things point to someone who is struggling with his situation. Whether it's caused by him not playing at the moment, not being able to train, the end of his contract or whatever - it's irrelevant. The fact of the matter is that his behaviour shows signs of mental health issues. And, unlike others, at least he has admitted himself to hospital because he realises he needs help.
