I wonder if Reg will continue to lick women on the ear.
A generalisation I'd do well not to make next time I suppose, doesn't change the fact you focussed on the ONE who obviously didn't and took my point, yet again, out of context. Dribbler.
A generalisation I'd do well not to make next time I suppose, doesn't change the fact you focussed on the ONE who obviously didn't and took my point, yet again, out of context. Dribbler.
Wasn't Brett Firman mentioned as first man in? He's not even on the team sheet...
lol
the ABC would have been lying
they had enough resources to have a go at the NRL last time they did an AFL story
they're just tabloid trash
I note, Flaccid, that you completely ignored my expose of your hypocrisy! :lol:
Here it is again, just in case you forgot:
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Originally Posted by Timmah
As a final point, wake up to yourself when it comes to arguing - this isn't about personal matters. I don't know you and you don't me. Play the ball, not the man.
Wake up to yourself, Flaccid. Talk about hypocritical:
Here are some of your comments from the last few days:
You've been caught out again, chump.
- F**k me you QLD morons are nutters...
- Because you lot in Queensland tend to generalise... :lol:
- The game's being played in Gosford you f**king dunce,...
- I don't think he's suggesting they take part in RL part-time you goose,...
If I was a lawyer I would say that I have title to you.
What relevance does this have to the topic at hand? Stick to discussing the important issues this thread approaches rather than derailing it a crusade against me.
Well said and I'm glad someone's highlighted that. It sounds like it's all well and good for these women to parade themselves around and act like pieces of meat. Both sides of the fence need to learn to respect themselves.
bartman, if you think that article accurately summarises the 48 minute program you've either not watched it all, watched it in part, or closed your eyes and blocked your ears for half of it.
My analysis:
Let me preface my remarks by saying there is clearly a problem with some people in the game. These kids get the superstar tag too early and get over-confident. There is simply no denying that. Alcohol is an issue to be looked at - the Knights came out of it smelling like roses as they should have. The culture change there is to be applauded under Brian Smith. I do believe there are a lot of clubs heading in the right direction, but there's a long road to travel there.
For me though, the programs credibility was shot to pieces in three big ways.
- Sarah... surname escapes me... Durezza? the woman whose father was in the altercation with Watmough she comes across as dishonest, immature and to be perfectly honest, a rotten liar. Almost as if shes telling a story rather than relaying facts.
- At what point did the Cronulla 02 woman bother to say no? Im sorry but theres an onus on her to not partake. The grey areas described in the last few pages by ibeme and PBB aside, the depth of description shes gone to throughout the interview tells me she was fully aware of what was occurring throughout the incident. I have no doubt she suffers mental scars but at what point did she withdraw consent? The sexist notion that consent is a one way street (that men must assume it all) is archaic as it is ludicrous. If she doesnt want to be there, she says no, screams, gets out of there. Whatever - but she gets herself out of that situation. If they pursue the matter from that point then it is criminal and proof can be gained if they use force. In the end, theres no excusing the up to 11 peoples (or 12 if you believe bartman's article he posted) actions although they appear legal and consented based on police investigation and the act itself is not something most people find normal.
- Charmayne Palavi. The entire program took a massive hit by bothering with her. She has no credibility. Her accusations of rape are absolutely disgusting and completely without merit. Her story appears baseless and quite frankly she comes across as overly confident to the point of dishonest. I have no doubt there are plenty of players out there, around that age, that are hot-headed, full of piss and self-important... but her credibility is through the floor. Her public image is no secret and to suggest it would be dragged through the mud if she reported her supposed experience... its akin finding dog sh*t on a lawn recently fertilised with chicken sh*t it all stinks.
I want leagues image cleaned up as much as the next person. I dont want other codes players to be committing similar sins and escaping it. I dont want players private lives, their sexual lives, made public unless a criminal accusation is made and later proven. I dont want every groupie thinking they can make a quick buck (as no doubt Palavi did). I want a better future for this game but my fear is with the media climate (i.e. saturation) that even the innocent incidents that may occur, and in some cases complete lack of incidents, that our game may not be able to clean that up, simply due to the amount of people out there seeking to damage the sport we love.
In summary, the fact my tax dollars paid for that smear campaign makes me sick. I hope it does its job to help mend leagues tattered image but I fear its done much worse, and probably damaged it further. I would not be surprised to see tape on jerseys in the coming weeks at some clubs as sponsors decide it's all too much.
On a final note Im considering lodging an official complaint with the ACMA in regards to the display of pornographic images. Pictures of erect penises have no place on television. If you want to see that rubbish, go rent a porno. Who approved that crap?
Funny that some people are taking 4 corners line as justification as to why Rugby League should be singled out over off field incidents
Sunday, on the Offsiders, Caroline Wilson was really showing the teeth with off field Rugby League incidents.
She seemed to say a lot about nothing when the topic moved to the Michael O'Loughlin, Peter Burgoyne and Adam Heuskes matter. She got very defensive when Roy mentioned the only reason St Kilda named the players in their little incident was because they had already been identified in the media. Then when they spoke about how Sam Newman had belittled her on the AFL Footy Show and she seemed quite happy to let the matter rest and not take it any further.
Interesting to here the comments of the Knights CEO with the radio interview this morning. Watching it last night, to me it seemed 4 Corners did not tell the Knights which way the story was going to go. Not that Im condoning what happening in Christchurch in 2002,
I am not saying anything illegal happened in NZ. What I am saying is that it is a bit concerning that a group of players feel it is acceptable to watch their teamates have sex whilst they openly masturbate in front of each other. They also seem to feel it is ok to be the second, third, forth etc man in. That is not the image the game needs nor is it acceptable behavior. This on top of the broncos in the toilet fiasco last year, the bulldog fun at coffs and even though charges were not laid you have to admitt that there is a pattern of behavior here.
I actually think it's a lot of rubbish.Brutus said:Very good post Tim. I never thought I'd say it, but I agree with you completely on this one.
Amazing character analysis there. I'm amazed that in one interview, where she talks about one incident in which the perpetrator was punished and hence considered guilty of the crime, you've deduced her as a 'rotten liar'. Where's Watmough, or Manly, denying anything she said?For me though, the programs credibility was shot to pieces in three big ways.
- Sarah... surname escapes me... Durezza? the woman whose father was in the altercation with Watmough she comes across as dishonest, immature and to be perfectly honest, a rotten liar. Almost as if shes telling a story rather than relaying facts.
I love your sense of authority and all-encompassing knowledge on this topic. Like a woman who has found herself in a situation with an ever-increasing number of comparitively large football players having their way with her, has any kind of control or authority over the situation. Tell me Tim, let's say hypothetically you batted for the other team. You go back to a footy player's hotel room and after a bit, you look up to find a whole swag of them lining up to have a thrash at you. Surrounded. I'm sure you are going to confront all of these large men and say "NO! I DON'T CONSENT!", quietly get dressed and leave the room. No, chances are you're going to be absolutely sh*tting yourself and hope they don't hurt you. Remember, this was a young, naive 19 year old woman involved. A woman in that situation surrounded by men all asserting themselves on her isn't exactly going to feel in control.- At what point did the Cronulla 02 woman bother to say no? Im sorry but theres an onus on her to not partake. The grey areas described in the last few pages by ibeme and PBB aside, the depth of description shes gone to throughout the interview tells me she was fully aware of what was occurring throughout the incident. I have no doubt she suffers mental scars but at what point did she withdraw consent? The sexist notion that consent is a one way street (that men must assume it all) is archaic as it is ludicrous. If she doesnt want to be there, she says no, screams, gets out of there. Whatever - but she gets herself out of that situation. If they pursue the matter from that point then it is criminal and proof can be gained if they use force. In the end, theres no excusing the up to 11 peoples (or 12 if you believe bartman's article he posted) actions although they appear legal and consented based on police investigation and the act itself is not something most people find normal.
I concur on your feelings that people's perception of this woman is not great. She goes after footy players and she's not ashamed to admit it, even though she has kids. But she still has a right to consent. What she has described is something that you'll probably find is nothing to do with rugby league players, but society in general - how often would women find themselves too drunk or out of it to realise they're involved in a sex act? For all we know, Palavi consented in some way but forgot or didn't realise because she was too intoxicated. That is not a crime, that is a mistake. But the issue is not about crime, the issue is about consensual sex. She has brought up something that is probably the biggest grey area in history, and is certainly valid for discussion.- Charmayne Palavi. The entire program took a massive hit by bothering with her. She has no credibility. Her accusations of rape are absolutely disgusting and completely without merit. Her story appears baseless and quite frankly she comes across as overly confident to the point of dishonest. I have no doubt there are plenty of players out there, around that age, that are hot-headed, full of piss and self-important... but her credibility is through the floor. Her public image is no secret and to suggest it would be dragged through the mud if she reported her supposed experience... its akin finding dog sh*t on a lawn recently fertilised with chicken sh*t it all stinks.
What you have described there is very noble, Tim. But it is completely off the mark. I can't believe you'd watch a documentary like that, and come out of it crowing that league's image needs to be protected. Miss the point much? How about at least acknowledging that rugby league players need to learn how to treat women in modern society? That part pass you by, did it? The way you have responded is almost like you're more interested in dodgy behaviour being covered up to protect the game's image, as opposed to the dodgy behaviour being cleaned up for the greater good.I want leagues image cleaned up as much as the next person. I dont want other codes players to be committing similar sins and escaping it. I dont want players private lives, their sexual lives, made public unless a criminal accusation is made and later proven. I dont want every groupie thinking they can make a quick buck (as no doubt Palavi did). I want a better future for this game but my fear is with the media climate (i.e. saturation) that even the innocent incidents that may occur, and in some cases complete lack of incidents, that our game may not be able to clean that up, simply due to the amount of people out there seeking to damage the sport we love.
It's not the program you should be worried about, it's how the tabloids react. I was reading articles about it today and you could just about quote the entire program from the bits and pieces floating around. It just goes to show that many newspaper and commercial TV journalists are looking for someone else to do their work for them. THEY are the ones you need to be worried about, not ABC, not 4 Corners and not Sarah Ferguson.In summary, the fact my tax dollars paid for that smear campaign makes me sick. I hope it does its job to help mend leagues tattered image but I fear its done much worse, and probably damaged it further. I would not be surprised to see tape on jerseys in the coming weeks at some clubs as sponsors decide it's all too much.