we know the police didnt press charges , therefore johns is innocent.
Without wanting to come off as a tinfoil hat wearer, the fact no charges were pressed does not indicate innocence.
What it means was that the Police involved and/or DPP did not believe there was sufficient evidence to merit a trial.
Was she raped? Perhaps, perhaps not. Was there monetary or other political force bought to bear to sweep the issue away? Perhaps, perhaps not. There certainly has been in other cases.
if a player (or any male) drags off a chick and rapes her or coerces her then i'm all for castrating them, but it seems in a lot of these group 'rape' situations the chick has gone off with the players before deciding afterwards she didnt like it
On the other hand, if the woman (or man, or whatever) involved says "no" or "stop" or anything of that nature doing proceedings and the other party does not, it is then no longer consensual.
Unfortunately the vast majority of rape cases come down to he said/she said. Difficult enough to prove at the best of times, even if the party who was assualted is willing to face the social stigma attatched to laying charges and then the court case, where they will almost certainly be painted as fast and loose. Among other things.
When you're looking at group sex situations, it's even worse. If the woman (or man, or whatever) says no- or wants to say no- they are in a situation where they can very easily be overpowered physically and where there is a very high probability that the group will swear up and down that everything was consensual.
Issues of Police charges and court cases aside, the onus is really on the Rugby players to keep it in their pants, girlfriend, wife, family or not. Admittedly this is something bought up from some time ago, but still. They're big boys, and should be expected to act like it.