Need Mens Perspective

[The Camden Leisure Pirate]

RaiderKate,

Are you attractive??

 

[newtownbluebags]

they need to ask my sister and her fiance for it. So not only do they need to chat me up, they need to chat up my sister and her fiance.

:lol: :lol:

 

[RK]

Thats something you are going to have to figure out!!!

Why do you ask??

 

[The Camden Leisure Pirate]

Because in my experience,
Girls that use "blockers" are either shy and attractive or full of themselves.
And I don't get the feeling that you fall under the second category??
But hey, I could be wrong.....

 

[RK]

Hey Im far from being full of myself. I am shy, dead giveaway. But you would have to ask the others whether i was attractive, because I might see myself differently to what others do!!!

Although, using a blocker, do you refer to that as being negative or positive??

 

[Big_Bad_Shark_Fan]

the only way to determine this is by photo

to the picture thread lass

 

[RK]

the only way to determine this is by photo

to the picture thread lass

Yeh I dont think so.

I dont have a recent one of me!!!

 

[roosters06]

Pick up lines are so cheesy. The worst kind are gym pick up lines - they never come out how they are supposed to...lol.

I prefer the simple making conversation approach. I like to know that I am able to talk freely to someone before diving in the deep end.

 

[The Camden Leisure Pirate]

Hey Im far from being full of myself. I am shy, dead giveaway. But you would have to ask the others whether i was attractive, because I might see myself differently to what others do!!!

Although, using a blocker, do you refer to that as being negative or positive??

Using a blocker in your case is cool. Because you don't think
you’re too good to talk to everyone, your just shy, which is cute.

See now its stating to add up. Asking about a "guys perspective,"
guys playing games, making the first move and the blockers

 

[RK]

Whats starting to add up Johnny?? Enlighten me!!!

 

[newtownbluebags]

Reg Reagan says - hang out ya tackle and hope for the best....

 

[The Camden Leisure Pirate]

Whoa,
Easy dude. I now just have a better idea of you, then just a dog in a bun.
Didn't mean to offend.

 

[RK]

Nah not offended at all. I think I came across differently. it was just a general question, i am very slow today because Im not feeling too well and wanted to know what you think all this is adding up to!!!

That is all

 

[Eelementary]

Gotta agree with Johnny.

Nothing beats the pre-conversation 'dance'.

 

[RK]

What happens if they dont dance??

 

[Eelementary]

Doesn't mean they're not interested.

People are different - some are shy, some are confident...You know how it goes.

I'm in the middle - if I'm interested, I'll check her out (I mean to see her body language), and when she looks my way I'll give her a sign (a smile or whatever), gauge the reaction and go talk to her.

It's a tango, you see.

But yeah - if they don't visibly dance, it doesn't mean they're not trying to.

I know my mates - they're too shy to actually make eye contact with the women they're interested in - which is a cardinal sin, by the way.

 

[RK]

So in saying that what is a cardinal sin for a girl?? Because I dont think there are any!! But thats my opinion!!!

 

[Eelementary]

Well, that's a touchy issue! I mean, I have my cardinal sins for women, but they're different than others' probably.

I guess the biggest one is the whole leading you on - they shift their body to point themselves at you, look away when you look, laugh when they know you're looking, play with their hair when they know you're looking...And then you walk up to them and talk to them and it was all just an ego trip for them!

 

[The Camden Leisure Pirate]

Getting too attached to soon..........

 

[RK]

I guess the biggest one is the whole leading you on - they shift their body to point themselves at you, look away when you look, laugh when they know you're looking, play with their hair when they know you're looking...And then you walk up to them and talk to them and it was all just an ego trip for them!

That, I must admit is very true. However, I am not the type of person to do that and I hate when other females do it. Because it gives the nice females a bad name. But men can do that to.

Getting too attached to soon..........

Females are very emotional creatures!!!