That's why I asked what situation you have been in.
Folau's statement has more impact than Colin from Twitter or some rando. The major point is that it is not a statement made in isolation, just the one that made the news. Incel4153 from Reddit isn't going to make the news, but that doesn't mean that Incel4153's statements do not exist. And a public figure, with a wide reach, should know better than to spread such rubbish. How do you know which statement might be the last straw?
How do you know what a sixteen year old kid from a rugby school (let's say Marist Canberra), struggling with his sexuality, who looks up to Folau as a Wallaby feels when he sees someone he idolises say that about him?