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That's right, we all know how Maslow's heirarchy works. We have Google.Values are not fixed or mutually exclusive. There is no 10 Commandments of Values. The natives of North Sentinel Island will have different values than a Wall St Banker. The concept that the wealthy have fewer values is ridiculous. What you are trying to say, I think, is that values vary always. Ivan Milat vs Mother Theresa; Bill Gates vs Rupert Murdoch; their values have nothing to do with wealth nor does one have *fewer* values than the other.
Values are determined firstly by your beliefs. Environment (upbringing), spirituality, culture, education etc will impact your values. Rather than saying that values are things that you won’t accept, values are generally considered to be things that are important to you. Hence why values cannot be mutually exclusive.
Comparing my values to another’s is a worthy study, however my/your values are not wrong. They are merely different. What you can reflect upon is if my values align with the ethics of my tribe or perhaps my village.
Maslow created his little pyramid as a one size fits all aspirational guide to well being. His concept was that you get yourself sorted with the most primal of needs, as they are the bricks and mortar footings of your life wall. He said that you will need to satisfy these needs before you can move on to the next. So if you are hungry or thirsty or lack shelter, you wont be bothered with the other levels of the hierarchy.
You have applied his concept of safety to *wealth* within a village. However when you drill down on Maslow, he really just means security for yourself and tribe, protection from the elements (and elephants) , law and order, stability and freedom from fear.
So once you have the most basic of needs fulfilled, then you can focus on belonging, love, intimacy and community.
Once you have that you can then seek improvement of self esteem and reputation. Ultimately self-actualisation so you become the best version of self.
There are no failures with Maslow because the aspiration is ongoing. You may not get there until you are 60 or indeed you may never achieve contentment of self. As one merkin wisely said, it’s not about the goal, but the journey.
Therefore we know security is near the bottom. Merkins without money are aware of their lack of individual security. This is why they cling to tribalism, and the proscriptive shared values of their tribe. These values are often at odds with the more modern value of tolerance.