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Poupou Escobar

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The merkins wouldn't know what a salary cap is

They haven't used one for 20 years
While I think they very obviously have access to benefits they can offer outside the cap, it’s clearly not unlimited, as they do still lose players they want to keep. Lately there’s been quite a lot of them. Has Uncle Nick grown tired of burning cash or favours?
 

lingard

Coach
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I'm so sorry to hear that, mate.

I can't imagine how awful that would be.

My son is only 4, but he has already come up to me and asked, "Daddy, why don't the kids want to play with me?"

It broke me. I burst into tears, and cuddled him.

It's really tough for neuro divergent people - the world literally is not designed for them.

Just have to do our best to support them

I hope your son is ok, mate.
My son has what used to be called Aspergers. He has struggled with socialisation, emotion regulation, suicidal thinking. Got into the wrong crowd because he 'thought they were caring and supportive friends. Got into drugs big-time (never does anything by halves, my son), had an extended psychotic episode, got into trouble with the police, etc, etc. Long story short, by a series of remarkable 'coincidences' got busted for drugs; was ordered to the MERIT program; he connected with his counsellor like he never had with anyone else; went thru withdrawals (medically assisted) ceased all drugs. He then, out of the blue, decided he wanted to be an actor. Enrolled himself in a two year acting course at the Academy of Film Theatre and Television; moved to Sydney and rented a little 'studio' in Surrey Hills. Taught himself to cook, wash his clothes, shop, all those things. He completed the course with high marks. His mum and I went and saw him perform in a play at the Belvoir Street Theatre. He killed it. I've never been so proud in all my life.
I believe acting lessons taught him how to interact with people, and it also helped him conquer the incredible anxiety he used to have. Better than two years of intense psychological therapy I reckon. Would recommend acting for any one with reasonably high functioning autism.
My son still has his struggles (he's way too intense; takes everything too seriously; drives himself too hard etc) but it's a miracle he is where he is.
My message? There is always hope for our kids; and sometimes it comes in ways we definitely don't expect.
 

Zoso

Juniors
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My son has what used to be called Aspergers. He has struggled with socialisation, emotion regulation, suicidal thinking. Got into the wrong crowd because he 'thought they were caring and supportive friends. Got into drugs big-time (never does anything by halves, my son), had an extended psychotic episode, got into trouble with the police, etc, etc. Long story short, by a series of remarkable 'coincidences' got busted for drugs; was ordered to the MERIT program; he connected with his counsellor like he never had with anyone else; went thru withdrawals (medically assisted) ceased all drugs. He then, out of the blue, decided he wanted to be an actor. Enrolled himself in a two year acting course at the Academy of Film Theatre and Television; moved to Sydney and rented a little 'studio' in Surrey Hills. Taught himself to cook, wash his clothes, shop, all those things. He completed the course with high marks. His mum and I went and saw him perform in a play at the Belvoir Street Theatre. He killed it. I've never been so proud in all my life.
I believe acting lessons taught him how to interact with people, and it also helped him conquer the incredible anxiety he used to have. Better than two years of intense psychological therapy I reckon. Would recommend acting for any one with reasonably high functioning autism.
My son still has his struggles (he's way too intense; takes everything too seriously; drives himself too hard etc) but it's a miracle he is where he is.
My message? There is always hope for our kids; and sometimes it comes in ways we definitely don't expect.
Great story, thanks for sharing. Hope he keeps it up!
 

Poupou Escobar

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Ryles plus N Brown, Sam Moa, Wisemantel, Mills, Cayless, and now Gasnier.
Funny, I was thinking the other day we’ve got plenty of forwards in our coaching lineup (and that was a good thing) and then up pops Gas.
I’m liking this.
Does this mean we’re a club with resources?
We might’ve finally realised the investment part of ‘investing in pathways’ means spending money. I hope it’s sustainable, and if not, I hope it wins us a comp or two before the money runs out. Like at Manly a decade ago.
 

Gronk

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My son has what used to be called Aspergers. He has struggled with socialisation, emotion regulation, suicidal thinking. Got into the wrong crowd because he 'thought they were caring and supportive friends. Got into drugs big-time (never does anything by halves, my son), had an extended psychotic episode, got into trouble with the police, etc, etc. Long story short, by a series of remarkable 'coincidences' got busted for drugs; was ordered to the MERIT program; he connected with his counsellor like he never had with anyone else; went thru withdrawals (medically assisted) ceased all drugs. He then, out of the blue, decided he wanted to be an actor. Enrolled himself in a two year acting course at the Academy of Film Theatre and Television; moved to Sydney and rented a little 'studio' in Surrey Hills. Taught himself to cook, wash his clothes, shop, all those things. He completed the course with high marks. His mum and I went and saw him perform in a play at the Belvoir Street Theatre. He killed it. I've never been so proud in all my life.
I believe acting lessons taught him how to interact with people, and it also helped him conquer the incredible anxiety he used to have. Better than two years of intense psychological therapy I reckon. Would recommend acting for any one with reasonably high functioning autism.
My son still has his struggles (he's way too intense; takes everything too seriously; drives himself too hard etc) but it's a miracle he is where he is.
My message? There is always hope for our kids; and sometimes it comes in ways we definitely don't expect.
Lingard, my wife and I are one of the many patrons of Belvoir. They have supported a few productions and actors over the years for people who are neurodiverse. It’s a good community. That must have been a proud moment for both your son and your family.

Recently they closed a season of The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time. It’s a well traveled production (Broadway, West End), a who-done-it about the death of a neighbour’s dog and it’s up the the lad, who sees things that we might not, to unravel the mystery. A family mystery.

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Soren Lorenson

First Grade
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My son has what used to be called Aspergers. He has struggled with socialisation, emotion regulation, suicidal thinking. Got into the wrong crowd because he 'thought they were caring and supportive friends. Got into drugs big-time (never does anything by halves, my son), had an extended psychotic episode, got into trouble with the police, etc, etc. Long story short, by a series of remarkable 'coincidences' got busted for drugs; was ordered to the MERIT program; he connected with his counsellor like he never had with anyone else; went thru withdrawals (medically assisted) ceased all drugs. He then, out of the blue, decided he wanted to be an actor. Enrolled himself in a two year acting course at the Academy of Film Theatre and Television; moved to Sydney and rented a little 'studio' in Surrey Hills. Taught himself to cook, wash his clothes, shop, all those things. He completed the course with high marks. His mum and I went and saw him perform in a play at the Belvoir Street Theatre. He killed it. I've never been so proud in all my life.
I believe acting lessons taught him how to interact with people, and it also helped him conquer the incredible anxiety he used to have. Better than two years of intense psychological therapy I reckon. Would recommend acting for any one with reasonably high functioning autism.
My son still has his struggles (he's way too intense; takes everything too seriously; drives himself too hard etc) but it's a miracle he is where he is.
My message? There is always hope for our kids; and sometimes it comes in ways we definitely don't expect.
That’s a f**ken amazing post @lingard More than makes up for some of the shit I’ve read in the last few days. Thankyou
 
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