My son has what used to be called Aspergers. He has struggled with socialisation, emotion regulation, suicidal thinking. Got into the wrong crowd because he 'thought they were caring and supportive friends. Got into drugs big-time (never does anything by halves, my son), had an extended psychotic episode, got into trouble with the police, etc, etc. Long story short, by a series of remarkable 'coincidences' got busted for drugs; was ordered to the MERIT program; he connected with his counsellor like he never had with anyone else; went thru withdrawals (medically assisted) ceased all drugs. He then, out of the blue, decided he wanted to be an actor. Enrolled himself in a two year acting course at the Academy of Film Theatre and Television; moved to Sydney and rented a little 'studio' in Surrey Hills. Taught himself to cook, wash his clothes, shop, all those things. He completed the course with high marks. His mum and I went and saw him perform in a play at the Belvoir Street Theatre. He killed it. I've never been so proud in all my life.
I believe acting lessons taught him how to interact with people, and it also helped him conquer the incredible anxiety he used to have. Better than two years of intense psychological therapy I reckon. Would recommend acting for any one with reasonably high functioning autism.
My son still has his struggles (he's way too intense; takes everything too seriously; drives himself too hard etc) but it's a miracle he is where he is.
My message? There is always hope for our kids; and sometimes it comes in ways we definitely don't expect.