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red bear, that sucks mate.. hope you and your family are doing ok..
i always try to look for the positives, and in this case at the very least you got the opportunity to say goodbye..
That's something I really regret. I was overseas for the deaths and funerals of both of my grandparents on my father's side. I wasn't close with either of them, but it still would have meant something to me to see them one last time and say goodbye.
My grandmother on my mother's side also passed away before I was able to say goodbye. She was in a hospice for a week or two beforehand, but I'd volunteered to babysit my youngest brother who my parents thought wouldn't be able to handle the situation. Really saddens me that I never got to thank her for everything she'd done for me and say goodbye.