Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

[dogslife]

Clifford's on the roads?

 

[HowHigh]

Did he say he loved you the first time you had sex or did it take a few times

 

[dogslife]

He told me straight away.

Wait, what?

 

[adamkungl]

Yep thaaat'll do it

 

[HowHigh]

lol I'd be close to dropping the L word too after that I guess

 

[Joker's Wild]

Youre such an old fashioned girl Cliffy lol

 

[phantom eel]

He asked me out that night, I hated him during the date, he kept talking about himself, somehow we ended up making out

Sometimes two people being too similar can be a turn off....

 

[dogslife]

Same here, it's like double the length. It peaked at 10cm last week.

Horse

 

[phantom eel]

we started spending a lot of time together over the next week, he was really nice for me and compassionate with me, eventually I agreed to give it a shot.

I feel safe with him, and I miss him somehow, I like how he looks me in the eye and smiles when we're having sex and when he whispers "I love you" also he's a happy person with a lot of energy, he bought me a bike so I didn't have to walk everywhere, and he paid for driving lessons for me as well, he's also a hard worker and driven and he has a huge heart. I guess there's plenty I do like about him outside of what a gentleman he is.

What's not to like? Stop questioning it and just enjoy the experience. What's the worst that can happen anyway?

Devote all your energies to it, and hopefully we'll only see you back here in a few years (or if he has a guys weekend and you get bored). Fly high Cliffy....

 

[Different kind of Rabbit]

It's like a friggin mills and boon novel in here tonight.

 

[HowHigh]

I think the most important question here is does he know how to climb?

 

[Eelementary]

We met at the gym, he asked me to workout with him, I did, afterwards he took me for a ride on his motorbike then he let me drive it, I had no idea what I was doing and nearly drove it into an open drain (literally inches away I broke the fence that blocks of the drain), I felt terrible, miraculously the bike was okay. He asked me out that night, I hated him during the date, he kept talking about himself, somehow we ended up making out at Parramatta river and then having sex in the back of his V8 truck.

Anyway I spent the night at his I made it clear I just wanted sex, we started spending a lot of time together over the next week, he was really nice for me and compassionate with me, eventually I agreed to give it a shot.

I feel safe with him, and I miss him somehow, I like how he looks me in the eye and smiles when we're having sex and when he whispers "I love you" also he's a happy person with a lot of energy, he bought me a bike so I didn't have to walk everywhere, and he paid for driving lessons for me as well, he's also a hard worker and driven and he has a huge heart. I guess there's plenty I do like about him outside of what a gentleman he is.

Good stuff, Cliff.

 

[Didgi]

Go for it

One day u will be about to turn 39 with a kid, mortgage, debt up the ass etc

U will wish u hit on more nrl savvy chicks didgi

Unless she is a titans fan. Then she can get f**ked

The other options are waaaay too AFL cosy to disregard a Titans fan... plus, it's the local team so I might just have to cop it.

Knowledge of NRL + small tits > big tits + no NRL knowledge

Small boobs have charm too

When a girl is very interested in something I like, be it NRL or Lord of the Rings or metal or hiking etc, they automatically become sexier.

If you are like me and watch NRL every weekend it's on, play local league, talk about it nonstop, keep up to date on everything RL and spend all summer wishing it was back, an NRL-savvy girl is a big plus.

Yep, struggling to get more than a couple of my mates into league as it is.

If she answered "Mitchell Pearce" I'd be straight up ready to go again

:lol::lol:

 

[urban eel]

this seems appropriate

 

[Springs]

Yeah alright Cliffy that's about enough attention-seeking for the moment.

 

[Dragon2010]

I'll ask a question. Not really "love" relationship, just more friends and such in general.

Have an old female friend of mine from high-school, we used to be pretty close. Once I left, communication pretty much slowed down, rarely talk to her anymore.

I have my 21st coming-up and I have no idea if I should invite her or not. I mean, we were very close, but now I feel as if I hardly know her at all. (She has a bf btw, not that it affects my decision much).

 

[Cliffhanger]

Sometimes two people being too similar can be a turn off....

Haha I gave him a chance despite it because I remembered that when I like someone I get nervous and talk to too much in the hope of saying something to unless them and to try and mask it.

He's not really narcissistic at all.

 

[sportive cupid]

This guy sounds strangely familiar to me.

 

[muzby]

I'll ask a question. Not really "love" relationship, just more friends and such in general.

Have an old female friend of mine from high-school, we used to be pretty close. Once I left, communication pretty much slowed down, rarely talk to her anymore.

I have my 21st coming-up and I have no idea if I should invite her or not. I mean, we were very close, but now I feel as if I hardly know her at all. (She has a bf btw, not that it affects my decision much).

i guess the question back to you is - do you want to maintain the friendship or are you happy to let it slide away?

if you want to maintain it, ask her along.


friends come and go over time mate.. it's the old saying - friends fall into 3 categories - friends for a reason, friends for a season, friends for a lifetime.

 

[sensesmaybenumbed]

I'd ask her D2010 - always better to ask and know if she's still a friend rather than be left wondering.