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Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

Eelementary

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One female person is referred to as a "woman". One male person is referred to as a "gentleman".

But Cliffy - if you like nothing else about him other than the fact he treats you nice, then either you need to find a deeper, more meaningful reason to want to be with him, or let go. Not really fair to string him along IMO.
 
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Alba

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Gentlewoman?



I am a believer in the truth and honesty, if you don't feel it, cut him loose. He will be hurt at first, but it's better than a few months or years down the track when you realise it's not, and never will be, there. Give him the opportunity to meet the one that wants to be with him for him, rather than what he can do for them.
 

sportive cupid

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I reckon honesty is the best idea as well.
But I also know that sometimes the " emotional attachment" can develop in time.
I've had that experience,where in the beginning it was just fun but no physical attraction.As time went on that changed and he became the hottest guy I knew (to me) .

I say give it a bit more time than three weeks if you like most things about him .
 

Eelementary

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Gentlewoman?



I am a believer in the truth and honesty, if you don't feel it, cut him loose. He will be hurt at first, but it's better than a few months or years down the track when you realise it's not, and never will be, there. Give him the opportunity to meet the one that wants to be with him for him, rather than what he can do for them.

You're a gentlewoman, yes.

And I agree completely. I think she needs to either find something tangible, or cut the rope and eat the lolly.

Wait....

Nup - that's 'cos I've been playing too much "Cut The Rope" on my phone.

Of course, what I meant to say was to let him Ninja Jump away if...

God, damn it!!!!
 

Twizzle

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different strokes for different folks

some people dont have alot of relationships and if someone makes them feel good about them self for a while, then enjoy it while you can and gain some self confidence from it

the novelty will eventually wear off and she will move on but for now, smash it
 

Helmet Man

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different strokes for different folks

some people dont have alot of relationships and if someone makes them feel good about them self for a while, then enjoy it while you can and gain some self confidence from it

the novelty will eventually wear off and she will move on but for now, smash it
That was some beautiful poetry in your first line of the post.
 

adamkungl

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I've given the last couple of pages a lot of thought.. it's a tough situation. Both sides make good points.

Put it in his butt Cliffy.
 

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