Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

[t-ba]

Misanthrope, if either or both are Mainland Chinese, you could be asking for trouble. Normal western rules do not apply, regardless of how non insane they seem.

Just remember, anyone in China can pick up a dude off the street to jimmy your locks for 20 kuai...

 

[woodyk2]

Bonk the ex or not? She's keen judging by txts.

 

[T.S Quint]

Bonk the ex or not? She's keen judging by txts.

I had this same quandary not too long ago.

I chose to bonk.
No regrets.

 

[Gas Panic!]

We went through that trying to conceive my Daughter. I still remember one night after we had been trying for close to a year, the stick said ... etc etc etc... She reminded me that the stick said tonight is the night. I responded by saying I assumed that the ship had sailed. Next thing you know she is smoking it like a hungry puppy on it's mother teat & the stick was obeyed.

At the time it was a chore, but like Butch I miss that stick something bad.

My Mrs is very keen to start trying for our first. Lets hope I end up like you and not JW.

Better get on one of these sticks!

 

[soc123_au]

Haha funny story

Out of curiosity did you end up getting a girl?

We've got 3 boys and we'd love a girl but have no faith that those sort of methods work, curious to hear real life stories

There is a procedure we could do overseas but it's pricey

Yep. Got the Girl, wouldn't swap her for the world. Although sometimes I am convinced she is the devil. Lol.

 

[Dragon2010]

Haha funny story

Out of curiosity did you end up getting a girl?

We've got 3 boys and we'd love a girl but have no faith that those sort of methods work, curious to hear real life stories

There is a procedure we could do overseas but it's pricey

A friend of my brother, has nine brothers. His mum/dad have ten boys in total. Not a single daughter in that mix.

 

[Drew-Sta]

A friend of my brother, has nine brothers. His mum/dad have ten boys in total. Not a single daughter in that mix.

You'd so go to the casino, put $10 on red and black, the bet the house on the next spin whichever colour it turned up.

 

[Misanthrope]

As long as youve made it clear that its not exclusive, no problem

Oh and well in my man *hi fives*

Yeah, I'd stop if I were going exclusive with any of them.

Misanthrope, if either or both are Mainland Chinese, you could be asking for trouble. Normal western rules do not apply, regardless of how non insane they seem.

Just remember, anyone in China can pick up a dude off the street to jimmy your locks for 20 kuai...

Ugh. I don't date the Chinas. They're crazy high maintenance, sexually naive, and just way too much work. If I wanted to f**k somebody who spits, doesn't brush their teeth often enough, and doesn't shave - I'd date Hoggmaster.

 

[HowHigh]

What's your secret Mis?
Is it because there aren't a lot of white people and the white girls over there tend to go for the white guys?
Or are you just a master at chatting up women?

 

[Misanthrope]

What's your secret Mis?
Is it because there aren't a lot of white people and the white girls over there tend to go for the white guys?
Or are you just a master at chatting up women?

I think it's more the former than the latter, although lately I've had a few girls tell me I've 'got game' or something to that effect.

I don't have a secret. I try to be a nice guy, I'm fairly quick witted, and I guess I'm not as awful looking as I tend to believe.

 

[Dragon2010]

You'd so go to the casino, put $10 on red and black, the bet the house on the next spin whichever colour it turned up.

English dude. English. :lol:

Hottie at Uni has no f*cking idea. To help or not....might offer to help her in the labs/practicals. It's group of 3-4 and I need 2 more to join to get a group of four. :lol:

 

[Dani]

Still need a date for a wedding.

 

[Dragon2010]

Still need a date for a wedding.

Why not BM?

 

[Dani]

Why not BM?

So he can reject me again?

 

[woodyk2]

Cut all ties with the ex. Why is it so difficult all of a sudden?

 

[muzby]

Cut all ties with the ex. Why is it so difficult all of a sudden?

because despite her being an ex, there still would have been emotional bonds there, some of which would have provided you the subconscious comfort of being 'accepted' by someone. this means that even though you split up, part of your mind would have still felt in relationship mode.

by severing all ties, you are only now going through the final throws of the breakup, hence the feelings you are experiencing now.

look at it like a credit card - you've only now just paid off the final balance. whilst there is pain now, you can take solace in being debt free and look forward to a new life.


yep, stuff is crap now, but it turns around. just find yourself something else to focus on and channel your energy into that..

 

[woodyk2]

because despite her being an ex, there still would have been emotional bonds there, some of which would have provided you the subconscious comfort of being 'accepted' by someone. this means that even though you split up, part of your mind would have still felt in relationship mode.

by severing all ties, you are only now going through the final throws of the breakup, hence the feelings you are experiencing now.

look at it like a credit card - you've only now just paid off the final balance. whilst there is pain now, you can take solace in being debt free and look forward to a new life.


yep, stuff is crap now, but it turns around. just find yourself something else to focus on and channel your energy into that..

Cheers mate...that was cool.

 

[sensesmaybenumbed]

Muzby is not cool.

I speak from great experience, being also not cool.

 

[woodyk2]

Muzby is not cool.

I speak from great experience, being also not cool.

Me either.

 

[Bulldog Force]

because despite her being an ex, there still would have been emotional bonds there, some of which would have provided you the subconscious comfort of being 'accepted' by someone. this means that even though you split up, part of your mind would have still felt in relationship mode.

by severing all ties, you are only now going through the final throws of the breakup, hence the feelings you are experiencing now.

look at it like a credit card - you've only now just paid off the final balance. whilst there is pain now, you can take solace in being debt free and look forward to a new life.


yep, stuff is crap now, but it turns around. just find yourself something else to focus on and channel your energy into that..

Muzby... how on Earth did you come up with that stuff? I don't mean it in a bad way, but good - you sound like you're a doctor. That's pretty good man.