Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

[Drew-Sta]

:lol: BF strikes again.

 

[Bulldog Force]

:lol: BF strikes again.

Seriously? You're on my case here too? What part of my post was funny? Please do tell...

 

[butchmcdick]

because despite her being an ex, there still would have been emotional bonds there, some of which would have provided you the subconscious comfort of being 'accepted' by someone. this means that even though you split up, part of your mind would have still felt in relationship mode.

by severing all ties, you are only now going through the final throws of the breakup, hence the feelings you are experiencing now.

look at it like a credit card - you've only now just paid off the final balance. whilst there is pain now, you can take solace in being debt free and look forward to a new life.


yep, stuff is crap now, but it turns around. just find yourself something else to focus on and channel your energy into that..

Can I transfer my balance to another credit provider

 

[Drew-Sta]

Seriously? You're on my case here too? What part of my post was funny? Please do tell...

:lol:

 

[Bulldog Force]

Why don't you head over the Bulldogs forum... I frequent that place too. You can get onto my case there - go on.

 

[Drew-Sta]

Why don't you head over the Bulldogs forum... I frequent that place too. You can get onto my case there - go on.

I prefer to keep my shoes clean.

 

[Bulldog Force]

I prefer to keep my shoes clean.

If that's the case I'll roll out the red carpet for you.

 

[Pugzley]

Still need a date for a wedding.

Was that the wedding at the zoo?

 

[Misanthrope]

Well said, muzby. One of the aspects of a break-up I most struggle with is coming to terms with the fact that somebody with whom I shared an immense emotional bond and who was, in many respects, your best friend is no longer a part of my life at all.

It seems so alien that they should just become somebody that you used to know.

To that effect, I've always tried to maintain some kind of friendship after the fact to very mixed effect. I'm closest with the recent ex, much to my own frustration given what a collosal bitch she often is.

 

[Apey]

Well said, muzby. One of the aspects of a break-up I most struggle with is coming to terms with the fact that somebody with whom I shared an immense emotional bond and who was, in many respects, your best friend.

To that effect, I've always tried to maintain some kind of friendship after the fact to very mixed effect. I'm closest with the recent ex, much to my own frustration given what a collosal bitch she often is.

Is it just me or did you forget to end the first paragraph? I assume you meant breaking that bond/losing touch with the person is the aspect you struggle with.

You do seem to have a love-hate relationship with the latest ex...

 

[Misanthrope]

I totes did. Whoops!

Edited.

 

[Eelementary]

Cut all ties with the ex. Why is it so difficult all of a sudden?

I pined after my ex for three years on and off.

At the end of the day, mate, they're an "ex" for a reason, and moving on is usually the best course of action to take.

Unless, of course, she's "the one", in which case you need to step over your own mother to get her back.

 

[Helmet Man]

best thing to do around girls is to not care.

 

[Twizzle]

I pined after my ex for three years on and off.

At the end of the day, mate, they're an "ex" for a reason, and moving on is usually the best course of action to take.

Unless, of course, she's "the one", in which case you need to step over your own mother to get her back.

problem is if you're not "her one" you're wasting your time

 

[Eelementary]

problem is if you're not "her one" you're wasting your time

This is true.

But I find chloroform is great at making that a redundant problem...

 

[Bazal]

problem is if you're not "her one" you're wasting your time

A-f**king-men

 

[muzby]

A-f**king-men

Changing sexual persuasions is a bit of an extreme reaction, but if it helps you, I'm not one to judge..

 

[Bazal]

Changing sexual persuasions is a bit of an extreme reaction, but if it helps you, I'm not one to judge..

Mate, there are women who've made me contemplate.....:lol:

 

[Misanthrope]

Holy f**king f**k. Why am I so nervous before this date? I'm literally doing this once a week, but I'm sitting here like it's two minutes to curtain on opening night.

Help!

 

[sensesmaybenumbed]

Just imagine everyone in their underwear...