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Bulldogs fullback Ben Barba stood down indefinitely

bartman

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The young WT forward (may God rest his soul) did not end his life due to a torn pec muscle.
Given the timing though, it does seem to have been the last straw for the guy?

Shame, as by all reports he had lots of on-field potential and was a good bloke off-field. We'll never truly know what another individual experiences within the confines of their own mind.

Condolences to his partner and family and mates.
 

Garts

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From that article it sounds like he wants the best of both worlds. Father and party boy, can't do both unfortunately. Especially when you can't handle your booze. It amazes me some think having kids at 19 or 20 is a good idea, many are clearly not ready for the responsibility.

Anyway hope he sorts his shit out for all concerned.
 

Teddyboy

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Maybe the kid needs to work in a factory for 40 hours plus to get back to seeing what he has got.
 

Cammo

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Maybe the kid needs to work in a factory for 40 hours plus to get back to seeing what he has got.

I don't think a lot of the issues with these young footballers is hard work, it is the sudden realisation that they have no anonymity anymore.

I know I would hate it if every time I went down to the shops I got approached and recognised by everyone there, and I earn a damn good wage that I would gladly lower to keep the ability to just go where I please without people knowing who I am.

Some people thrive on it, others struggle. I know personally I would struggle badly with it
 

DoggiesBro

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http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/sport/gallery/how-ben-barba-broke-down/story-e6freye9-1226588760969


Very sad for many reasons.


Some people are silly enough to gloat that this hurts the Dogs chances. What a stupid narrow minded opinion. Some are even using this to rub it into the Dogs as a club. All rugby league fans should be disappointed that Barba is out of action. And we should all hope that he gets on top of all of his problems and is back on the field asap.


Well said mate, MrT needs to read this instead of thinking it's karma. Disgrace of a human.
 

Spot On

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That Telegraph article simply reads as poor choices being made. Put it down to whatever you like. He's made some mistakes. He is young. He is away from home. Had kids too young. In with a bad crew. So on and so forth. Stories like that are a dime a dozen.

What stands him apart from the "dime a dozen" punters is the intense media coverage and change of life that would have come with his football success. That is something no one here can speak intelligently about as we are all nobodies. We haven't experienced that type of pressure. Being accountable for performances on and off the field in such a public forum as p[resent day media. I can only image how farkin annoying it would be to have media constantly annoying the shit out of you. Printing personal info about you. Having people with their phones taking pictures of you trying to have a beer, have a night out, have a bit of fun etc. I feel for all "celebs" in that regard.

I can't help but think there is a little more to this "suspension" that have not been revealed.
 
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ShaiGuY

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Looking at it together with the tragic death of Mosese Fotuaika, regardless of what Barbahas done I think the NRL and clubs need to do more about assisting younger players and helping them cope with the significantly extra responsibility at such a young age. Combine expectations, failure, pressure both personally and personal together with transitioning from a teenager which is a time where you'd usually be partying and pushing boundaries for a footballer would be extraordinarily difficult. Back in the day, many more of these kids were forced to work and study etc but now there is such a media focus on them and things like social media etc. don't make it easier.

Besides getting the clubs, NRL etc more involves and up to date on player welfare my other suggestion would be to make a system similar to the US College system for sports whereby you need to study something and must pass the grades otherwise you don't play. It adds more responsibility rather than just focussing 100% on sport that they must perform at and gives players something to fall back on after they retire, if they are forced to retire early or even if they don't make the grade - like many won't. It doesnt just have to be university but can be a trade where you still have to do Tafe etc. I think something like this should be mandatory - may get criticised for it but i reckon you should be suspended if you're young and are not performing (like they do in the us system) - even if you are a star player. Can't speak for Tafe but at Uni all you really need to do is turn up and do your work and for a commerce full time degree it's only about 12-14 hrs class time a wk - most students drop out as they skip classes etc as they are not used to being forced to attend like school.
 

thorson1987

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Players in the Holden Cup (feels weird saying that) are supposed to be working or studying.

Problem is is that when these guys get moved into the top 25 that all stops.
 

God-King Dean

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Staaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan. STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN!

I have a disease!

Get me another beer will you.....
 

Fire

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http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/sport/gallery/how-ben-barba-broke-down/story-e6freye9-1226588760969


Very sad for many reasons.


Some people are silly enough to gloat that this hurts the Dogs chances. What a stupid narrow minded opinion. Some are even using this to rub it into the Dogs as a club. All rugby league fans should be disappointed that Barba is out of action. And we should all hope that he gets on top of all of his problems and is back on the field asap.

It would be nice to see Barba back on the field ASAP.

But, I give a f**k about his problems as much as he gives a f**k about mine.
 

God-King Dean

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http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/sport/gallery/how-ben-barba-broke-down/story-e6freye9-1226588760969


Very sad for many reasons.


Some people are silly enough to gloat that this hurts the Dogs chances. What a stupid narrow minded opinion. Some are even using this to rub it into the Dogs as a club. All rugby league fans should be disappointed that Barba is out of action. And we should all hope that he gets on top of all of his problems and is back on the field asap.

:lol: wtf? How the f**k is that article meant to make us feel sorry for him?

He abused 2 women, used the race card against the police, & has been in several altercations with teammates. All this before his 'tragic' break up.

Just sounds like a spoilt brat.

But I'm sure he has a disease.....
 

mave

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http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/sport/gallery/how-ben-barba-broke-down/story-e6freye9-1226588760969


Very sad for many reasons.


Some people are silly enough to gloat that this hurts the Dogs chances. What a stupid narrow minded opinion. Some are even using this to rub it into the Dogs as a club. All rugby league fans should be disappointed that Barba is out of action. And we should all hope that he gets on top of all of his problems and is back on the field asap.

If only the RL community and media was as sensitive to the players feelings and clubs reputation back during the Stewart drama.

I am glad the game has moved to a much more progressive mindset.:roll:
 

Canard

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Tele states that in 2007 they were both completing there High School Certificate or HSC.

Unless something has changed in recent years , its not referred to as HSC in QLD
 

gUt

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If only the RL community and media was as sensitive to the players feelings and clubs reputation back during the Stewart drama.

I am glad the game has moved to a much more progressive mindset.:roll:

yeah but f**k Moanly
 

Danish

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I like the part where it says that all he wants is to be a good father to his kids... Then goes onto say that he never spent any time with his family, and was out drinking and partying all the time and living the high life while mum was stuck at home with the babies.

Just SCREAMS "family man", doesn't it...
 

butchmcdick

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I like the part where it says that all he wants is to be a good father to his kids... Then goes onto say that he never spent any time with his family, and was out drinking and partying all the time and living the high life while mum was stuck at home with the babies.

Just SCREAMS "family man", doesn't it...

It might be a cultural thing....,
 

Grapple

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All his problems just come back to how young he is, more than anything else. Needs a bit of mentor I reckon. Either way, none of my (or anyones) business, and the quicker this topic dies down the sooner he can sort stuff out.
 

Cletus

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All his problems just come back to how young he is, more than anything else. Needs a bit of mentor I reckon. Either way, none of my (or anyones) business, and the quicker this topic dies down the sooner he can sort stuff out.

Whenever someone says "mentor" I think Mundine.
 

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