Well we must be different, because I'd rather my player just play harder when he misses a kick or throws a forward pass...
I want my players to make up for mistakes with good play in response - not wasting energy acting like a toddler whose milky got taken away.
apples and oranges mate... there was only about a minute on the clock when JT had his blow up, and the cowboys were sunk. i would argue that he had plenty of good plays in response to the ineptitude of the rest of his team... and that he gifted the rest of his team ample opportunity to win the game.
i find it refreshing that JT was absolutely busting a nut to win that game, and when it didn't come off it clearly hurt him. as i said, blowing up deluxe at the ref isn't the way to go (he should probably have been giving his own troops a serve)... but i don't have a problem with the blowup itself. it's good to know there are blokes out there that actually care about the result.
if that makes you and i different... well what can i say, fair enough! i've got no problem with that, either.