The tale of two men.
One in there 20s bought a house got married and had kids. Finacially in a great place.
The other partied, travelled the world and shagged women.
One says to the other. Look at me i have own house a wife and kids. I am buying and investment property. You wasted all ypur money and time.The other says you spent your 20s working, saving and renovating. I spent mine doing what I want when I want in the prime years of my life. Had adventures, collected stories. I had fun ypu wasted your youth and will never get those years back,
Moral of the story. Pou was probably doing whatever he wanted and enjoyed those years.