Dutchy said:
You ever met Anthony? Hes a top bloke, that AVO his ex got is absolute garbage. Anyone that knows him should know he is not the type of guy she said he is.
Mate don't be fooled by his charisma.
I've worked with violent standover men and other assorted 'tough guys' since I left school and many of them were 'top blokes'. I mean it - a lot of them would do anything for a mate, including cop a flogging just so you wouldn't have to cop it alone.
But plenty of 'top blokes' have beaten women before. I've seen it first hand.
All it takes for a bloke to hurt or threaten his girl is a propensity for violence, some deep-seated insecurity (like the kind of insecurity that might motivate a midget to work hard enough to make it as a forward in the NRL ;-) ) and 'old fashioned values'. The three are a lethal cocktail.
And don't assume that violence against women = cowardice. It's a common misconception that men who use violence against women are cowards who wouldn't dream of attacking another man. That's bulls**t. Most of these kinds of men see violence against women as no different to physically disciplining children.
I certainly don't think Anthony Watmough is a coward. To make it as far as he has (he's one of the top back rowers in the game) despite being a small man takes incredible courage and determination but don't discount insecurity as a motivator. It's pretty common amongst professional sportsmen.
Now it could be that Watmough's ex really is making things up, but it doesn't have the ring of truth to it. It's unlikely that a woman would make something like that up in the first place (though I'll concede it does happen), it is doubly unlikely when he's the father of her child and even less likely when he offers the kind of financial security that a Manly player can provide.
Far more likely is that a muscle-bound midget spends his life trying to get the respect he felt he never got as a child, and after a few drinks his self-control goes out the window and he resorts to violence and the threat thereof to get that respect from the people he feels owe him.