I don't see this, I'm sorry. When you indicate that you've been through a dark period in your life, and acknowledge those who helped you through it, that is not the same as acting like a victim. Protracted court proceedings, being stood down from your employment while all the while being in the glare of publicity isn't something I'd want to go through, even if I brought it on myself.
I don't believe he or anyone else who has made a mistake has to go around publicly showing remorse for the rest of their life just to make other people happy. You accept the punishment, and move on.