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Monk

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Why does she want to move to Goulburn :?

Anyway, Goulburn isn't that far away, I drive up there a lot to visit family. You could always get a lift off us lol.

yeh, but once she moves to goulburn, i know that we will slowly drift apart, and ill just feel stupid travelling up to see her, despite raiders successful very long range relationship, i know mine just wont work.
 

Monk

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you just gotta raise the stakes a bit. don't be overly friendly with her (without being an arsehole), put a bit of tension in the relationship for a few weeks. then have a massive night out on the cans with her and she'll be all yours. dont say ANYTHING that implies you want to just be friends with her

think of a relationship like a pendulum. the less you put into it the more she will

there is a bit of a time limit though, if she does move (and we start dating) then we will only have a month together, then she moves away. but if she stays, then relationship ahooy. she really is looking fwd to going though....

also, another trouble is, when i want to let a girl know that i like her, i tend to be a bit too obvious... eg. dog friends, hang with her, constant texting. etc.
 

madunit

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Slurpees and sh*tholes, anything you wanna tell us unit :lol:
nothing that I haven't already told you.

You're the one trying to make a link, maybe there's something you need to address
 

dogz08

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there is a bit of a time limit though, if she does move (and we start dating) then we will only have a month together, then she moves away. but if she stays, then relationship ahooy. she really is looking fwd to going though....

also, another trouble is, when i want to let a girl know that i like her, i tend to be a bit too obvious... eg. dog friends, hang with her, constant texting. etc.

Maybe you should be upfront and tell her you like her and don't want her to leave..
 

Moffo

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there is a bit of a time limit though, if she does move (and we start dating) then we will only have a month together, then she moves away. but if she stays, then relationship ahooy. she really is looking fwd to going though....

also, another trouble is, when i want to let a girl know that i like her, i tend to be a bit too obvious... eg. dog friends, hang with her, constant texting. etc.

mate i know what you mean, used to be exactly the same. its hard to change but my advice is get out, enjoy life, do whatever the f**k you want and it will end up changing your personality. you probably hate the fact that you become clingy when you like someone....fortunately it doesn't have to be that way. a girl will pick up very quickly on someone if they are clingy and run a million miles the other way

good luck mate
 

Monk

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mate i know what you mean, used to be exactly the same. its hard to change but my advice is get out, enjoy life, do whatever the f**k you want and it will end up changing your personality. you probably hate the fact that you become clingy when you like someone....fortunately it doesn't have to be that way. a girl will pick up very quickly on someone if they are clingy and run a million miles the other way

good luck mate

im not sure wat to do, she has picked up that i like her, but we havnt talked in days. she has talked to my friends, but i havnt seen her.
 

dogz08

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hmmm uni course or girl in goulburn.... hmmmm???

im only young, but i aint going to goulburn.

I'm the same age as you, and if i was you i would go for it now and spend whatever time you have left with her..
 
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