This is completely wrong and laughably biased
For starters the first discretion in the Reynolds/Latrell thing was Graham picking the ball up offside, so no matter what happened it should have been a tigers penalty
Bjs priors didn’t add a single match to his games missed tally
As for the grading, you have completely made that up. The NRL have never once said being provoked or heat of the moment is a defence for foul play
Except that Graham wasn't offside. He was onside by the time he went to pick the ball up. South Sydney players fumbles the ball about 45m from the try line, after the fumble the ball rolls back closer to the 50m, Graham is onside by this point as he is behind the point of the initial fumble by his team mate.
But even if Graham was onside, it doesn't matter. The first act of foul play was commited by Reynolds. A foul play penalty will always overrule an offside penalty.
And yes, unprovoked attacks will always be a higher charge than an in the heat of the moment incident.
The problem is that the match review committee has to be consitent. Yea everyone hates Latrell at the moment, but if they give him a charge that doesn't match the offence it creates 2 problems.
1. Latrell Mitchell might get completely off if they overcharge him.
2. All other similar incidents will then have to be graded similarly. Players coming in after a foul play is very common and there's a lot of striking and head contact in these incidences. If Mitchell receives a massive suspension for this then that creates the precedent, and even minor skirmishes on field will now be suspension worthy. If Latrell Mitchells is now the grade 3, then the way players reacted at full time in the Panthers vs Tigers game would now be the grade 2, and Kikaus reaction to BJ after BJs sin binning would be the new grade 1.
People want consistency from the match review right up until they don't want it and want all the rules thrown out because a player is unpopular.