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Moffo

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I have an open mind, and i don't have a problem with homosexuals. People can live life as they wish, that has always been my belief.

But, i think its a lifestyle choice

I regret all the abuse that gay people take. They don't deserve it.

In my opinion, homosexuality is not 'natural'. I just have to look at the reproductive systems to say that. Guys and girls are welll....created differently if i can put it that way

Look at it this way, i agree that not everyone is born the same. But come on, most guys who are gay are quite 'feminine'. You don't disagree do you? But there are also many straight people that are quite feminine. What makes some of them gay and others not? People can still be feminine without being 'queens' as you put it

Thats why i say its a lifestyle choice. Its not one that i have a problem with.

How can you explain to me that people are born gay? That is one thing i would like answered. And tell me how some people can be feminine yet still be straight

Im more open minded then most salivor, i can assure you of that

But the simple fact is that i believe that is a choice to live the 'homosexual lifestyle'

Cheers,
Moffo
 

ozcrusader

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salivor said:
Quote:
Good to see that you realise that. Why then are you not comparing heterosexuality to paedophilia? Please answer me that one.

* Homosexuals are over-represented in child sex offences: Individuals from the 1 to 3 percent of the population that is sexually attracted to the same sex are committing up to one-third of the sex crimes against children. A study in the Journal of Sex Research found that although heterosexuals outnumber homosexuals by a ratio of at least 20 to 1, homosexual paedophiles commit about one-third of the total number of child sex offences.

You paedophile stats are a waste of time because in case you haven't realised paedophiles and homosexuals are two different things. I know that may come as a shock to you because lets face it this is where your leading. You want to tar all homosexuals with the same brush. Your stats have already shown two thirds of paedophiles are heterosexual so hey lets persecute them as well.

No, my stats have shown that homosexuals are overrepresented in these type of crimes. If the overall homosexual population is 10% of the total population, then why are homosexuals involved in one third of all child sex offences? That is a fact.

You can, if you like, choose to ignore it. However, it does not negate its veracity.

Lets ban all sexual relations because hey if we show any signs of sexuality we could become paedophiles so its better to stop sex and kill off the human race and give the animals a go at it. I hear they have far less homosexuals so they maybe able to wipe out paedophilia all together where humans have failed. Just a thought.

Now you're just being silly.

Did you ever just stop and think why I ignored this part? Just a hint, just quietly. You may not have noticed but we're not debating homosexual marriage. I never mentioned it, I haven't given my view on it, for all you know I'm against it. Its got nothing to do with the topic. I know its been a real strain on you in this argument goangod trying to stick the argument we started with. I wish you the best in trying to do so but I know it won't last long.

Homosexual marriage has nothing to do with homosexuality? Riiight. Thanks for that. In case you havent noticed, homosexuals have successfully pushed for the right to legally marry in Canada, in other parts of Europe and are trying thier luck in Australia as well. This is the reality.

Secondly, if you consider homosexual acts to be normal, then to deny them the right of marriage is discrimination. Its as simple as that. Do you deny this? Therefore Salivor, you cannot hold the view that homosexuality is alright but homosexual marriage isnt.

Ok, let's take a step back for a minute.

Let me ask you a simple question.

Do you think pedophilia is always wrong?
 

ozcrusader

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Here we go Salivor - you can use exaclty what you said to defend pedophiles- congratulations.

Salivor:
"You can't change what children you’re sexually attracted to. It’s not your choice; I didn't choose to be attracted to children, that’s the way I was born. I didn't just wake up one day and weigh up the pros and cons of which children to be attracted to. We don't understand why some people are born attracted to children and we all know that what we don't know about we're afraid of. We'd rather persecute them because of this fear of the unknown. We're so damn threatened, if you’re quite comfortable in your heterosexuality what have you got to be threatened of?"
 

Mad Dogg

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goangod said:
You are correct in stating that homosexuality is between consenting male adults. And equally correct in stating that pedophilia is abuse. But are they linked? Is consent the only difference?

What if a 5 yr old child consents to sex? Does that make it ok?
:roll:

Homosexuality is between consenting male adults. It is generally accepted in all aspects of life that when a person becomes an adult they become mature enough to make their own decisions, drive cars, drink, smoke, have sex, etc. These things have different age barriers, but children of the age of 5 (as in your example) are not mature enough to make those decisions. It is absolutely no different whatsoever in the case of homosexuality and paedophilia. If all parties are of a certain age (16 for sex in this country), then there are no problems. Now obviously, with paedophilia not all parties are old enough and mature enough, so therefore it is illegal.
 

JoeD

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Homosexuals are over-represented in child sex offences: Individuals from the 1 to 3 percent of the population that is sexually attracted to the same sex are committing up to one-third of the sex crimes against children.

I'm just going to do what you did to somebody else's post and transplant a few words. Tell me what you think.

(In NZ) Maori are over-represented in crime: Individuals from 10 percent of the population that is maori are committing up to one-third (or more) of crime.

Does this prove a correlation between being maori and being a criminal?
 

brook

First Grade
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Goangod

that case is horrific yes, and you're probably right about why it didn't get as much attention. I fail to see what that proves though other than the fact that both gays and straights can be monsters - I certainly wouldn't ever pretend otherwise, evil is not restricted to any exclusive group.

I would say though that at least this poor boys family would have had the consolation that their sons funeral was NOT picketed by a group holding signs saying 'god hates straights' or 'Jesse's in hell now' - a great deal of the coverage on the Matthew Shepard case was focused on the fact that his family could not say the same.
 

salivor

First Grade
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Moffo said:
I have an open mind, and i don't have a problem with homosexuals. People can live life as they wish, that has always been my belief.

But, i think its a lifestyle choice

I regret all the abuse that gay people take. They don't deserve it.

In my opinion, homosexuality is not 'natural'. I just have to look at the reproductive systems to say that. Guys and girls are welll....created differently if i can put it that way

Look at it this way, i agree that not everyone is born the same. But come on, most guys who are gay are quite 'feminine'. You don't disagree do you? But there are also many straight people that are quite feminine. What makes some of them gay and others not? People can still be feminine without being 'queens' as you put it

Thats why i say its a lifestyle choice. Its not one that i have a problem with.

How can you explain to me that people are born gay? That is one thing i would like answered. And tell me how some people can be feminine yet still be straight

Im more open minded then most salivor, i can assure you of that

But the simple fact is that i believe that is a choice to live the 'homosexual lifestyle'

Cheers,
Moffo

I'm very pleased that in your 20 or so years of life that you've worked out that male and female reproductive systems are different. Its a start at least ;-) .

What has being feminine really got to do with being gay moffo? Your basically using the same warped theory as goangod that because feminine males are over represented in the gay community there must be a strong link there. Being feminine is not a pre-reqouisite for being homosexual and being masculine is not a pre-requoisite for being heterosexual. If you can't see the stupidity in this side of your arguement then thats fine, ignorance is bliss.

I hate to tell you that I can't explain to you how people are born gay. I also can't explain to you how to cure cancer or aids. I can't even explain to you how the world was created because we have no real proof. Yet your quite happy to believe that god is real and geniune aren't you moffo? Yet even you've said yourself in past debates we don't know for sure. Lets face it moffo your opinion on this subject has been formed by your christianity just like goangods. Now run along my little sheep.
 

JoeD

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Dang, why is there no 'kiss' emoticon? :lol:

Seriously though, here's a question for Moffo, what is your favourite food? I have lots of favourites but for simplicity I will say my favourite food is spaghetti. Now do you think I chose to enjoy spaghetti? Or was I just born that way? It is probably a mixture between genetics and my early environment, two things I have no control over. I can choose not to eat it but that won't stop me liking it.

Personally I don't think we have a lot of choice in anything we do, but that is another argument.
 

millersnose

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all the gays i have known live a pretty miserable existance and even have gone through the "fake girlfreind" stage to try to conform

they try their best to give it a go with a girl but just dont find them appealing

it never works


this is why i conclude some people are just born gay

live and let live - the gay community largely is a harmless one just trying to live their lives in happiness
 

salivor

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* Homosexuals are over-represented in child sex offences: Individuals from the 1 to 3 percent of the population that is sexually attracted to the same sex are committing up to one-third of the sex crimes against children. A study in the Journal of Sex Research found that although heterosexuals outnumber homosexuals by a ratio of at least 20 to 1, homosexual paedophiles commit about one-third of the total number of child sex offences.

Heterosexuals are over-represented in rape statistics, Maoris in New Zealand are over-represented in crime statistics, Negroes in America are over-represented in crime statistics etc. Are we to make links about all these people as well? Are you and I rapists’ goangod simply because we were born heterosexual? I also better keep the doors locked because there’s a Maori across the road.

No, my stats have shown that homosexuals are overrepresented in these type of crimes. If the overall homosexual population is 10% of the total population, then why are homosexuals involved in one third of all child sex offences? That is a fact.

You can, if you like, choose to ignore it. However, it does not negate its veracity.

Your stats show that homosexuals are over-represented in child sex offences. Your point? I've already given you an example of Maori in New Zealand being over-represented in crime. You can make a links in all sorts of things but that wouldn't suit your argument because you’re only in the business of persecuting homosexuals.

Now you're just being silly.

No I'm just using your warped logic but I'm glad even you can see its silly.

Homosexual marriage has nothing to do with homosexuality? Riiight. Thanks for that. In case you haven’t noticed, homosexuals have successfully pushed for the right to legally marry in Canada, in other parts of Europe and are trying thier luck in Australia as well. This is the reality.

Secondly, if you consider homosexual acts to be normal, then to deny them the right of marriage is discrimination. Its as simple as that. Do you deny this? Therefore Salivor, you cannot hold the view that homosexuality is alright but homosexual marriage isn’t.

Ok, let's take a step back for a minute.

Let me ask you a simple question.

Do you think paedophilia is always wrong?

Well lucky for you and your argument of asking me loaded questions rather than ever telling us straight out your full opinion on the matter, I do think that homosexual marriages should be legalised. And yes I will save you the typing time "but what if 3 people want to be married etc". My belief is that marriage is a commitment between two people no matter which sex. Heterosexual couples that get married get a lot of legal benefits out of marriage which homosexuals are denied.

Is paedophilia always wrong? Yes.

Here we go Salivor - you can use exaclty what you said to defend pedophiles- congratulations.

Salivor:
"You can't change what children you’re sexually attracted to. It’s not your choice; I didn't choose to be attracted to children, that’s the way I was born. I didn't just wake up one day and weigh up the pros and cons of which children to be attracted to. We don't understand why some people are born attracted to children and we all know that what we don't know about we're afraid of. We'd rather persecute them because of this fear of the unknown. We're so damn threatened, if you’re quite comfortable in your heterosexuality what have you got to be threatened of?"

I really am a talented guy. The difference here once again is that homosexuality is between consenting adults and paedophilia isn't. Some people may be attracted to children at birth but we are talking about sex offenses here.
 

ozcrusader

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salivor said:
Heterosexuals are over-represented in rape statistics, Maoris in New Zealand are over-represented in crime statistics, Negroes in America are over-represented in crime statistics etc.

Where's your proof that heterosexuals are overrepresented in rape statistics? It sounds rght- but I'd like some figures

Are we to make links about all these people as well? Are you and I rapists’ goangod simply because we were born heterosexual? I also better keep the doors locked because there’s a Maori across the road.

Homosexuals are overrepresented in child abuse cases. A tiny minority of the population is responsible for a third of its abuse claims. You can sugarcoat it all you like - the fact remains and the link remains.

Research on the homosexual lifestyle confirms it is almost
exclusively a youth oriented culture. Very few gays exhibit a preference
for older men. Some admit to a focus on teenage boys, some on
prepubescent boys, and many cross over between categories. All are
subsets of the homosexual deviancy. Moreover, most pedophiles consider
themselves to be gay. In a 1988 study published in the Archives of
Sexual Behavior, 86% of pedophiles described themselves as homosexual
or bisexual.


Well lucky for you and your argument of asking me loaded questions rather than ever telling us straight out your full opinion on the matter, I do think that homosexual marriages should be legalised. And yes I will save you the typing time "but what if 3 people want to be married etc". My belief is that marriage is a commitment between two people no matter which sex. Heterosexual couples that get married get a lot of legal benefits out of marriage which homosexuals are denied.

Your belief is that marriage is between two people?
Your belief Salivor???

Well you know what, my belief and the belief of many others is that gay marriage shouldnt be legal. But, we are told, we have no right to impose our beliefs on others.

So simply because you 'believe' that marriage is between two people is irrelevant. Now, you tell me how on earth a government here can ban polygamy? How dare you impose your 'beliefs' on the poor, discriminated against polgyamists of our society? Go on - tell me. Once you have discarded the Judeo Christian definition of marriage to suit the needs of one group - you cannot deny others. The logic is simple - try and and keep up.

It absolutely amazes me, that you seek to dispense with all them moral injunctions that discriminate against homosexuality yet you use these very same moral injunctions to discriminate against polygamy and pedophilia. Your position, Salivor, is untenable.

I really am a talented guy. The difference here once again is that homosexuality is between consenting adults and paedophilia isn't. Some people may be attracted to children at birth but we are talking about sex offenses here.

Ah.
So what you are saying that its ok to be attracted to the same sex at birth but not ok to be attracted to children? But how can you say that? Who are you to judge them? After all, we are told, there is no such thing as 'normal' sexuality.

Pedophiles are the target of so much abuse and discrimination in our society! I mean, who would want to be a pedophile? Its obvious then that they have no choice in the matter and should be free to express their sexuality. Being attracted to children is just another form of 'sexual orinetation' which this group should have the right to practice.

Unfortunately, your point that pedophilia does not involve homosexuality is undermined by the actions of homosexual groups trying to lower or dispense with the age of consent altogether, the prevalence of pedophiles and pedophile groups in the homosexual movement and the identification of most pedophiles as homosexuals.


Is paedophilia always wrong? Yes.

Great - we agree on something.

Ok, the reason I asked you this is as follows.

30 years ago, if you had told people that homosexuals would enjoy the protection of the law and be allowed to get married, you would be considered a nutball. Homosexuality was considered as deviant, as criminal and not something spoken about - except by a few left wing professors in academia who argued that homosexuality was normal.

Thus the homosexual movement begun.

Homosexuality 30 years ago is exactly where pedophilia is today.

So here's my next question Salivor, lets say, that in a certain amount of time, itmaybe 10 years, 20 years or 50 years, that pedophilia is legalised - that any person can have sex with a child if they consent - even if that child is 3 or 4 or 10.

Would you still be of the opinion that pedophilia is wrong? And why?
 

Anonymous

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millersnose said:
live and let live - the gay community largely is a harmless one just trying to live their lives in happiness

Well said.
We'll have to meeting like this, miller.


Goangod:
You seemed to have established (for yourself) that there's a connection between homosexuals and paedophilia. Do you think it is the sexuality (ie being Gay) which is to blame? That being the case, do you consider homosexuality to be a perversion?
I assuming that you don't approve of homosexuals because you think they are prone to sexual abuse. Is that assumption correct?
 

ozcrusader

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Willow said:
Goangod:
You seemed to have established (for yourself) that there's a connection between homosexuals and paedophilia. Do you think it is the sexuality (ie being Gay) which is to blame? That being the case, do you consider homosexuality to be a perversion?

Definitely - yes - I consider homosexuality to be unnatural.

I assuming that you don't approve of homosexuals because you think they are prone to sexual abuse. Is that assumption correct?

That's one of the reasons. The others involve natural law, marriage, procreation, birth rate, individualism, hedonism etc etc

Some people here believe that there is no link between homosexuality and pedophilia at all. I am attempting to disprove that.

Here something on the North American Man By Love Association:

  • NAMBLA not only describes itself as part of the gay rights coalition, but its literature states that one of its goals is "cooperating with the lesbian, gay, and other movements for sexual liberation."

    NAMBLA even "provide financial and other assistance to
    GLB [Gay, lesbian, bi-sexual] youth organizations . . . ."22 Indeed, some
    NAMBLA chapters meet at mainstream gay centers such as
    Philadelphia’s Gay and Lesbian Community Center.

    NAMBLA’s meetings and conferences always feature mainstream gay leaders and speakers. For example, Don Kilhefner, of the Los Angeles Gay
    Community Service Center, gave a speech to Los Angeles NAMBLA
    members on the subject of "The Significance of Man/Boy Love in the Gay
    Community."

    NAMBLA marches in gay pride parades with the consent of the gay
    leadership. Many of the homosexual movement’s most prominent leaders
    endorse NAMBLA and its goals. Gay authors and leaders such as Allen
    Ginsberg, Gayle Rubin, Larry Kramer (founder of ACT-UP), Pat Califia,
    Jane Rule, Michael Kearns, and Michel Foucault have all written in
    favor of either NAMBLA or man-boy relationships.

    Harry Hay, whom many consider the founder of the American homosexual movement,
    invited NAMBLA members to march with him in the 1993 "March on
    Washington" gay rights parade. He also marched in the 1986 Los
    Angeles gay parade wearing a shirt emblazoned with the words
    "NAMBLA walks with me."

    Leading mainstream homosexual newspapers and magazines such
    as the Advocate, Edge, Metroline, The Guide, and The San Francisco
    Sentinel have not only published pro-NAMBLA articles and columns but
    also many have editorialized in favor of NAMBLA and sex with children.
    The editor of The Guide, Ed Hougen, stated in an interview with
    Lambda Report, "I believe they [NAMBLA] are generally interested in
    the right of young people to be sexual . . . . I am glad there is a group like
    NAMBLA that is willing to be courageous." The San Francisco Sentinel
    was more blunt: "NAMBLA’s position on sex is not unreasonable, just
    unpopular. [W]hen a 14 year old gay boy approaches a man for sex, it’s
    because he wants sex with a man."25

    Indeed, the Journal of Homosexuality is the premier academic
    journal of the mainstream homosexual world and yet it published a special double issue entitled, Male Intergenerational Intimacy,
    containing dozens of articles portraying sex between men and minor
    boys as loving relationships. One article states that parents should view
    the pedophile who loves their son "not as a rival or competitor, not as a
    theft of their property, but as a partner in the boy’s upbringing, someone
    to be welcomed into their home."
    29

    Similarly, mainstream gay publications make no effort to hide their
    pro-pedophilia views. For example, BLK, a leading black homosexual
    publication, defended pedophilia with an article entitled, "Must Men
    Who Love Boys Be Guilty of Sexual Misconduct?"30 San Francisco’s
    leading homosexual newspaper, The Sentinel, bluntly editorialized, "The
    love between man and boys is at the foundation of homosexuality."31

    In 1995, the homosexual magazine Guide stated:
    We can be proud that the gay movement has been home to the few
    voices who have had the courage to say out loud that children are
    naturally sexual, that they deserve the right to sexual expression with
    whoever they choose . . . [w]e must listen to our prophets. Instead of
    fearing being labeled pedophiles, we must proudly proclaim that sex is
    good, including children’s sexuality . . . . We must do it for the
    children’s sake.[/
    list]


    I would be interested to know how you explain the close relationship between NAMBLA and the homosexual community.
 

JoeD

First Grade
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30 years ago, if you had told people that homosexuals would enjoy the protection of the law and be allowed to get married, you would be considered a nutball. Homosexuality was considered as deviant, as criminal and not something spoken about - except by a few left wing professors in academia who argued that homosexuality was normal.

Thus the homosexual movement begun.

Homosexuality has been around a lot longer than that it is just that it has had different levels of acceptance throughout the ages. Just as lots of things have. I'll try your trick again

150 years ago, if you had told people that woman would enjoy the protection of the law and be allowed to vote, you would be considered a nutball. Woman's suffrage was not something spoken about - except by a few left wing professors in academia who argued that woman were normal.

Thus the woman's suffrage movement begun.

Now does this mean that we are going to let children vote? I'm sure if you looked hard enough you would find some academic saying that it is an outrage that children cannot vote and that they are more than capable of doing so.
 

Anonymous

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goangod said:
Willow said:
Goangod:
You seemed to have established (for yourself) that there's a connection between homosexuals and paedophilia. Do you think it is the sexuality (ie being Gay) which is to blame? That being the case, do you consider homosexuality to be a perversion?

Definitely - yes - I consider homosexuality to be unnatural.

I assuming that you don't approve of homosexuals because you think they are prone to sexual abuse. Is that assumption correct?

That's one of the reasons. The others involve natural law, marriage, procreation, birth rate, individualism, hedonism etc etc

Some people here believe that there is no link between homosexuality and pedophilia at all. I am attempting to disprove that.

Here something on the North American Man By Love Association...

Yes, yes I only wanted to confirm your bias against homosexuals and that you believe they are prone to sexual abuse, not a whole sermon...

OK, talking of sermons...

There is a connection between the church and paedophilia... it certainly has been in the news a lot. Are priests prone to committing sexual abuse?
It seems that while we're tarring the brush, we may as well go the full hog and generalise about the priesthood as well.

And what about gay clergymen/women? Do you consider these individuals to be prone to sexual abuse as well? Seems like that qualifies as a double whammy.

Whats your opinion of homosexuals being appointed to high positions in the church?
 

ozcrusader

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JoeD said:
Homosexuality has been around a lot longer than that it is just that it has had different levels of acceptance throughout the ages. Just as lots of things have. I'll try your trick again

150 years ago, if you had told people that woman would enjoy the protection of the law and be allowed to vote, you would be considered a nutball. Woman's suffrage was not something spoken about - except by a few left wing professors in academia who argued that woman were normal.

Thus the woman's suffrage movement begun.

Now does this mean that we are going to let children vote? I'm sure if you looked hard enough you would find some academic saying that it is an outrage that children cannot vote and that they are more than capable of doing so.

Joe that is an excellent example and I see the point you are trying to make - society progresses and evolves. Now, can you see mine?

Just like Salivor, I consider pedophilia to be always wrong. Even if society were to legalise it in the future, I would still always consider it wrong - it violates fundamental moral principles which I believe. This is exactly the same with homosexuality - its not that I hate or loathe homosexuals - I consider their behaviour to be morally wrong.
 

ozcrusader

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Willow said:
There is a connection between the church and paedophilia... it certainly has been in the news a lot.

I was waiting for someone to bring this up - I'm touched that it was you Willow :D

Are priests prone to committing sexual abuse?
It seems that while we're tarring the brush, we may as well go the full hog and generalise about the priesthood as well.

Judging by the numerous abuse cases in Australia, the UK, the US and other places, you would definitely come to that conclusion. Abuse of minors is a big problem in the Catholic Church.

But let's look at the things more closely:

Is it accurate to describe these sexual offenses as "pedophilia"?There are several reasons that it should be looked at in the broader context of homosexuality.

a) In almost all cases, the victims are teens, not children.

b) In almost all cases, the victims are boys, not girls.

c) Among homosexual males, the behavior doesn't begin in adulthood. Often he's "initiated" as an adolescent.

That isnt pedophilia - its homosexuality.

I've taken from this secularhumanism.org - hardly friends of the Church.

In fact, only a handful of priests technically are pedophiles (sexually involved with children under ten or eleven). More might be inclined to ephebophilia, an attraction to pubescent and post-pubescent youth. One reason for this higher percentage is the Catholic practice of encouraging very young boys to enter seminaries and cutting them off from normal adolescent development.


And what about gay clergymen/women? Do you consider these individuals to be prone to sexual abuse as well? Seems like that qualifies as a double whammy.

As mentioned to Salivor above, women comprise only a tiny minority of child abuse cases - for both heterosexuals and homosexuals.

Whats your opinion of homosexuals being appointed to high positions in the church?

It's plainly ridiculous.
Christian precepts preclude homosexuality as a valid lifestyle. Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, Hinduism, Judaism - all of them condemn homosexual acts.
 

millersnose

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just to cut to the chase though

goangod

what do you think should happen?

should homosexuality be punished by law?

what about things like oral sex?

should these things be condemned also?
 

salivor

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Goangod it would be nice if you sourced your statistics. For all I know they could be coming from anti homosexual websites. Really, with all the name your source crap yourself and millers go on with in the Islam debates I thought you'd be up with the play.

Heres a nice little piece of information for you:
The rape of males is believed to be even more underreported than that of females. Male children are more likely to be assaulted by heterosexual men than by women or homosexual men. Very young males are most likely to be assaulted by family members or caretakers, young teenagers by authority figures, and young adult males by peers or older adults.

http://gocadvs.ky.gov/gisa.htm
(Hall, Rob. Rape in America. ABC-CLIO, Inc., 1995; 7-9, 74, 75.)

Rape is the most underreported violent crime on which national statistics are kept.
Rape victims overwhelmingly are female, and rapists overwhelmingly are male.
Rape victims are young; close to two-thirds of rape victims are under 18.


http://gocadvs.ky.gov/gisa.htm
(U.S. Department of Justice, Preventing Violence Against Women. Washington, D.C.; June 1995; 13-15.)

What is even more surprising to the average man is that, according to
several studies, most rapes of males are committed by men who are
heterosexual in their consensual sexual preference and self-identity; only
7 per cent of the rapists of men in the Groth-Burgess study were homosexual.
(Indeed, it has been reported that homosexual men are far less likely to
engage in rape than heterosexual men.) Half or more of these rapists choose
victims from both genders.


Heres a bit more, it was done in relation to sex offenders and pornography but gives some interesting stats none the less:
In total, 89 patients attending a sex offender's clinic were interviewed about their use of sexually explicit materials. Seventy-four percent admitted to having engaged in sexual acts with children and 26 percent had committed or attempted rape of an adult female. Of the child molesters, 23 percent had committed incest and 77 percent had molested children other than their relatives. Of the non-familial child molesters, 35 percent were homosexual molesters and 65 percent were heterosexual molesters.

http://canada.justice.gc.ca/en/ps/rs/rep/rr00-5.html

And more:
The most commonly reported perpetrators are fathers and stepfathers. Brothers, sisters, mothers, baby-sitters, and uncles, are also among the most common abusers.

Statistics only come from reporting, so we don’t have accurate, objective numbers. But based on the reports we have, it’s believed that 1 in 3 girls is sexually abused, and a general consensus of 1 in 5 to 1 in 7 boys is sexually abused.

http://www.allaboutcounseling.com/sexual_abuse.htm#sa5

Theres plenty more stats. Now if we link all the dots (which can be a bit hard because the stats and info I've used is a bit out of order) we get quite an interesting picture. Alot of it conflicts what you have put up.

Males are more likely to be raped by heterosexual males than females or homosexuals. Add to that the majority of victims are females and the majority of offenders are males which would indicate that the males are heterosexuals especially since heterosexuals are more likely to commit rape than homosexuals. The victims are also likely to be young and underage. Now if we've got a whole lot of heterosexual males raping underage females and males wouldn't that also be clased as paedophile activity? Not only that. From a sex offenders clinic, 65 percent were heterosexuals.
Then we see that 1 in 3 girls are sexually abused compared to only 1 in 7 boys. The main offenders are fathers, stepfathers and brothers.

What can we conclude from all of that? Rapists are most likely to be male and heterosexual and their victims are quite likely to be family members. Going by that goangod you better be careful because your very likely to sexually abuse or rape a family member.

Homosexuals are overrepresented in child abuse cases. A tiny minority of the population is responsible for a third of its abuse claims. You can sugarcoat it all you like - the fact remains and the link remains.

Theres many links. I've already given you the link between heterosexuals and rape. By your logic we can conclude that heterosexuality is dangerous because there is a chance that some heterosexuals may commit rape.

Your belief is that marriage is between two people?
Your belief Salivor???

Well you know what, my belief and the belief of many others is that gay marriage shouldn’t be legal. But, we are told, we have no right to impose our beliefs on others.

So simply because you 'believe' that marriage is between two people is irrelevant. Now, you tell me how on earth a government here can ban polygamy? How dare you impose your 'beliefs' on the poor, discriminated against polgyamists of our society? Go on - tell me. Once you have discarded the Judeo Christian definition of marriage to suit the needs of one group - you cannot deny others. The logic is simple - try and and keep up.

It absolutely amazes me, that you seek to dispense with all them moral injunctions that discriminate against homosexuality yet you use these very same moral injunctions to discriminate against polygamy and pedophilia. Your position, Salivor, is untenable.

Predictability is your main problem goangod. You know what polygamy is a ok by me I've decided. As many people can get married as they like. No paedophiles because sorry but that is illegal. Its not discrimination and I've explained that enough throughout this post. No bestiality either because we can't communicate well enough with animals for them to consent. I'm sure you've got many more groups goangod so please bore me shitless and lay them on me.

Ah.
So what you are saying that its ok to be attracted to the same sex at birth but not ok to be attracted to children? But how can you say that? Who are you to judge them? After all, we are told, there is no such thing as 'normal' sexuality.

Pedophiles are the target of so much abuse and discrimination in our society! I mean, who would want to be a pedophile? Its obvious then that they have no choice in the matter and should be free to express their sexuality. Being attracted to children is just another form of 'sexual orinetation' which this group should have the right to practice.

Unfortunately, your point that pedophilia does not involve homosexuality is undermined by the actions of homosexual groups trying to lower or dispense with the age of consent altogether, the prevalence of pedophiles and pedophile groups in the homosexual movement and the identification of most pedophiles as homosexuals.

Its ok to be attracted to children at birth. You can't change how you were born. Whats not ok to do is to act out on this attraction to children because this is when it becomes illegal and sexual abuse. Children don't have the maturity to consent to sex.

I really don't care what certain homosexual groups are promoting. I don't feel they represent the average homosexual who just wants to get on with their life. Quite the same way I feel that the Klu Klux Klan doesn't represent your average white male.

Great - we agree on something.

Ok, the reason I asked you this is as follows.

30 years ago, if you had told people that homosexuals would enjoy the protection of the law and be allowed to get married, you would be considered a nutball. Homosexuality was considered as deviant, as criminal and not something spoken about - except by a few left wing professors in academia who argued that homosexuality was normal.

Thus the homosexual movement begun.

Homosexuality 30 years ago is exactly where pedophilia is today.

So here's my next question Salivor, lets say, that in a certain amount of time, itmaybe 10 years, 20 years or 50 years, that pedophilia is legalised - that any person can have sex with a child if they consent - even if that child is 3 or 4 or 10.

Would you still be of the opinion that pedophilia is wrong? And why?

Race relations were also in about the same place 30 years ago. Now if I say interracial marriages and sexual relations is un-natural I'll be branded a racist yet its ok for you to come out and be openly homophobic.
Are you disappointed now that these days we look down on racists? What about women’s rights? They've come along way. I suppose 100 years ago if you told people that women would be in some of the most powerful positions in the world and be totally independent they'd think you were a nutball.

The difference as I've said a million times is that homosexual relations is between consenting adults and paedophilia isn't. I will always have the opinion that paedophilia is wrong. Mad duck summed it up nicely that children of that age are not mature enough to make an educated decision. They can be easily manipulated and don't have the ability to decide whether they really want to consent to sex or not. So its not ok for an adult to have sex with a child that is underage even if that child consents.
 
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