First time I met him in person, was the date. Before that, talking for a few wks.
Since I gave him my number, he only ever texted me.
No, he was not wearing Elwood clothing (lol)
And he kissed me and asked me if we could go out again
Now, I don't particularly have a high care factor about this, it just took a lot for me to actually go, and now I'm like wtf? Do I let him just message me randomly every couple of days, or just cut him off. Not sure of protocol anymore. He messaged me again today on fb uggghh I hate it. You have my f**king number.
depending on his type of personality, he may actually see facebook as the more "personal" medium to communicate, so after the date on friday he may actually believe he is being more open / close to you..
people all have their different preferences.. some see calls as more important / personal than sms.. others see facebook as better.. some still prefer written communication.. hell, i hate talking on the phone.. yet have friends who if i text, will call instead of replying via sms.. everyone's different..
if i view it objectively:
- you've both had a nice date (he wouldn't have asked you out again & kissed you, and you wouldn't be asking us all the question on here if you both didn't have a good time)..
- he's asked you out again..
- he's changed his method of contact, but is still contacting you (if a guy isn't interested, he won't keep in contact..)
so from the above, i'd say he's still keen.. perhaps he's waiting for signs that you may be?
no point second guessing, throw it out there and see if he's keen to catch up again (afterall, he said he would)..
if he fobs you off on that, cut your losses and focus elsewhere..
excuse the cliche, but there are plenty more fish out there..
