Ultrathread II: BF free since 83.

[Drew-Sta]

Yes

oh, there were other 'hers'..

but this her gave a significantly different feeling..

I'm not sure I follow?

never had her due to just never having the timing right (what city/town we were currently working/living in).

Stings a bit

The bit I don't understand is why it is an issue even after all these years. I still happen to think or consider her, despite having a good wife and a child. I don't understand the impact, or why it is the way it is?

 

[Bazal]

I'm not sure I follow?





The bit I don't understand is why it is an issue even after all these years. I still happen to think or consider her, despite having a good wife and a child. I don't understand the impact, or why it is the way it is?

Because it's never the same.

 

[adamkungl]

You lied Mis. You have broken my heart for the last time :'(

 

[Misanthrope]

You lied Mis. You have broken my heart for the last time :'(

Clearly I'm the only mod who does their job.

Fixed.

 

[adamkungl]

:lol: nice..

 

[KeepingTheFaith]

A BF free thread, colour me.....intrigued.

RIP Superthread.

I don't think feelings for serious ex gf's (whether good or bad) every really go away completely to a certain extent they just get dulled to the point where you forget most of the time.

After all there had to be something that made you be with her (or eventually leave her) and most ex's drift apart naturally so there's always that feeling 1, 2, 5, or 10 years on that they're somehow the same person when they've probably changed completely.

They will always be who you remember them to be so it's probably just a quiet contemplation moment of "what if" more than anything else. Grass is always greener etc?

 

[Drew-Sta]

A BF free thread, colour me.....intrigued.

RIP Superthread.

He occasionally tries to sneak in. Its just getting the time to spray some mortein then the place is clear again.

I don't think feelings for serious ex gf's (whether good or bad) every really go away completely to a certain extent they just get dulled to the point where you forget most of the time.

After all there had to be something that made you be with her (or eventually leave her) and most ex's drift apart naturally so there's always that feeling 1, 2, 5, or 10 years on that they're somehow the same person when they've probably changed completely.

They will always be who you remember them to be so it's probably just a quiet contemplation moment of "what if" more than anything else. Grass is always greener etc?

I will dwell on that. Some wisdom there...

 

[Red Bear]

So how did Muzby get barred from Goulburn?

 

[KeepingTheFaith]

Probably tried to spray paint LOL@Souths on the giant ram.

 

[KeepingTheFaith]

Mods!

 

[Drew-Sta]

We seem to have a pest problem...

 

[muzby]

anyone feel like posting this in the souffs forum?

 

[Different kind of Rabbit]

Sure.

I'll put it straight in the troll thread for you.

 

[muzby]

good idea.. only fair that it ends up in the most entertaining thread in that forum

 

[Misanthrope]

I don't think you ever completely move on from an ex either.

There's a country music song (by Big & Rich, I think) that says "You never stop loving somebody, you just start loving somebody else" and I kind of agree. The style and form of that love may shift, but there's always going to be a part of you that cares about them, I think.

That said, it really depends on the relationship. I'm still good friends with a girl I was with for two years, and still (inexplicably) feel something towards the abusive psycho I lived with in China - but the shorter term ones tend to be more fond memories than anything else.

P.S. BF has never been allowed in Ultrathreads. It was the purpose of the original one.

 

[Twizzle]

I don't think you ever completely move on from an ex either.

There's a country music song (by Big & Rich, I think) that says "You never stop loving somebody, you just start loving somebody else" and I kind of agree. The style and form of that love may shift, but there's always going to be a part of you that cares about them, I think.

That said, it really depends on the relationship. I'm still good friends with a girl I was with for two years, and still (inexplicably) feel something towards the abusive psycho I lived with in China - but the shorter term ones tend to be more fond memories than anything else.

P.S. BF has never been allowed in Ultrathreads. It was the purpose of the original one.

Very true, if if you do move on, you still have a spot for them

 

[Drew-Sta]

anyone seen Happy Valley doco?

 

[muzby]

is that the one about the cluster of sweat shops that make the toys for mcdonalds happy meals?

 

[muzby]

they say if a man doesn't learn from his mistakes, then he isn't developing as a person..

and at times, it is best to share these learnings with others, so as a whole our society can improve, progress and not make similar errors..

for example, if it's 6.30am, and you've gone into the wardrobe in the spare room to look for a tie that you need but haven't seen in a while, and in your search you discover a scream monster outfit from about 5 years ago that you forgot you owned..

i recommend not putting it on.

and i certainly recommend not sneaking up and scaring your wife whilst you are wearing it.

 

[sensesmaybenumbed]

they say if a man doesn't learn from his mistakes, then he isn't developing as a person..

and at times, it is best to share these learnings with others, so as a whole our society can improve, progress and not make similar errors..

for example, if it's 6.30am, and you've gone into the wardrobe in the spare room to look for a tie that you need but haven't seen in a while, and in your search you discover a scream monster outfit from about 5 years ago that you forgot you owned..

i recommend not putting it on.

and i certainly recommend not sneaking up and scaring your wife whilst you are wearing it.

You, sir, are fortunate to be alive.