Surely you would accept though that there is some women that would be willing participants in a group sex with many males though?
I understand that some situations may happen that a woman feels she is pressured into such an activity. But unless we are going to outlaw group sex there isnt much we can do unless she objects somehow.
Oh I could well believe that there are girls out there that enter as willing participants.
In the case in question with Matty Johns the girl allegedly agreed to sex with two people not ten.
I can see that there are circumstances where everyone agrees and everything is fine and dandy - but there are also situations like this one where something starts off as one thing and has the potential to turn into something altogether different.
It's when the situation changes that suddenly people don't feel quite so brave but still keep quiet or the people involved dont see or feel the change in atmosphere. Be it because of drink or just pure power or the heat of the moment or whatever - but in EVERY case the only person who is likely to ever end up the victim is the woman.
Group sex - 20 blokes on one woman and one bloke says "oh f**k, I cant get it up" - nay bother pal, there's 19 waiting to take your place.
If the girl says "errr, actually, not comfortable with this after all" there's 20 alcohol and testosterone fuelled blokes with raging bone ons. What's the outcome? Seriously?
There's every chance that for every girl that has a change of mind and says "no" there's another that thinks "I cant say anything, I got myself into this, I just hope it's over quickly". That girl could end up having mental issues that stem from that encounter. You're screwed by a bunch of blokes who all dump on you and then leave. There's no cuddles when you're finished. No conversation. Just use them and then kick em out. Hardly a massive boost to a persons self worth. Especially someone who might have self worth issues in the first place if they think that sleeping with a room full of men might be a good thing.
However you break it down - it's a minefield of things that COULD go wrong and the people that usually end up getting hurt are the girls. That's the issue here. It's not about consent or when things go well and everyones really happy. The real issue is when things go pear shaped or the psychological damage that can fester for years after such events.
If it doesnt happen in the first place - then there's little to worry about is there?
Also - if you've not had group sex with someone regardless of the consent issue - people can change their minds and their stories years later and be used as a weapon against the game we love.
