Could not agree more, I do fear though sometimes that our officials are heading down the union path where they seem to love seeing themselves on the big screen being important and how brilliant they are by never missing a thing and knowing every bloody rule in the book.
Thats so true of Rugby Union ref's apart from Nigel Owens as he let the games flow.
IDK what competition you guys are watching, but it isn't the NRL.
ATM NRL referees actively ignore most of the rulebook most of the time, only to pull the whistle out almost at random, or when it'll seemly have the largest impact on the game.
They ignore the vast majority of forward passes, offside (it's to the point that "good line speed" has become a synonym for offside most of the time), not square at marker, wrestling, etc, etc, that go on in a game. They take way, way, waaay to long to call tackled on average, which is seeing things like f**king mauling return to the game out of necessity and a rise in dangerous tackling technics that had been more or less eradicated from the game about a decade ago.
There're other rules that exist for very good reason that they blatantly ignore, like e.g. voluntary tackle, loss of forward momentum constituting held, attacking players lifting the elbow/forearm, etc, etc, and others that they only pull out in certain areas of the pitch, obstruction being the best example, which is almost totally ignored unless it's in a try scoring opportunity in the redzone.
Then every now and again they'll pull out a rule that's been ignored for years or even decades, and when they do it's almost always during the most crucial period of the game and f**ks a team over, which, whether true or not, gives the impression that that is the intention of pulling said rules out of their arse.
The most insidious thing about it is that it seems to affect certain teams more than others. Any genuine person who watches a lot of NRL (especially if they attend games) will tell you that there're things that certain teams can get away with that others simply can't, and that there's a definite corelation between the "good" and "bad" teams based on how much leniency they're given by the referees on average in the ruck, line speed, etc, etc.
The truth is that the standard of refereeing over the last 5 or so years, give or take, is easily the worst of the professional era, and the NRL's refusal to genuinely attempt to do anything about it structurally (except arguably introducing the 6 again rule, which made the problems much worse) is impacting the game, and will have worse impacts the longer it goes on.