strider
Post Whore
- Messages
- 78,831
:lol: :lol: :lol:<UPtheEELS> said:LOL Was that even an incident. I dont care who it is, you dont bug someone where they are taking a slash. Its un-Australian.
:lol: :lol: :lol:<UPtheEELS> said:LOL Was that even an incident. I dont care who it is, you dont bug someone where they are taking a slash. Its un-Australian.
fish eel said:you two hunt as a pack, do you? ;-)
Sounds like a warning there...? Mothers, lock up your sons ;-)Hellsy said:I'm the only one that needs to hunt though...
bartman said:Sounds like a warning there...? Mothers, lock up your sons ;-)
This incident seems a nothing thing, something that happens every weekend and usually gets settled after a complaint by the venue throwing someone out.
While Jarryd has to learn to be careful how he conducts himself in public as a first grader and at a pseudo-club sponsored event, if the Roxy had have just asked him to tone it down and leave (or maybe actually refuse drinks service to people who are intoxicated as per the law), then everybody would have been content.
The trouble being the venue chose to treat footballers differently to how they'd treat an ordinary punter, which does no-one any favours - it helps create a culture where footballers think they can behave differently to other people, it helps a girl making a complaint think worse of the venue, and it gives the media ammunition to run negative instead of positive stories.
Roxy should have taken action based on the girls complaint (even just getting security in and giving him a talking to and then close monitoring for the rest of the night) and then reported to the football club or advised the girl to do the same. Most people out there don't have a detailed understanding of the structures of clubs etc, and just know to report it to the logical place (venue) and if they aren't satisfied, then the media is there waiting and seen as an avenue that gets results.
bartman said:Sounds like a warning there...? Mothers, lock up your sons ;-)
This incident seems a nothing thing, something that happens every weekend and usually gets settled after a complaint by the venue throwing someone out.
While Jarryd has to learn to be careful how he conducts himself in public as a first grader and at a pseudo-club sponsored event, if the Roxy had have just asked him to tone it down and leave (or maybe actually refuse drinks service to people who are intoxicated as per the law), then everybody would have been content.
The trouble being the venue chose to treat footballers differently to how they'd treat an ordinary punter, which does no-one any favours - it helps create a culture where footballers think they can behave differently to other people, it helps a girl making a complaint think worse of the venue, and it gives the media ammunition to run negative instead of positive stories.
Roxy should have taken action based on the girls complaint (even just getting security in and giving him a talking to and then close monitoring for the rest of the night) and then reported to the football club or advised the girl to do the same. Most people out there don't have a detailed understanding of the structures of clubs etc, and just know to report it to the logical place (venue) and if they aren't satisfied, then the media is there waiting and seen as an avenue that gets results.
The Colonel said:If every 18 yr old male (or those who have been 18) who made unwanted advances to females was fined $1000 in Australia alone we could pay off the National Debt inside a week.
Suitman said:You seem to forget that he is a public figure at the mercy of the media and has responsibilities not only to himself, but the club.
In saying that mate, I really think this is a nothing issue and if Hadley hadn't have got hold of it, it still would be.
Suity
The Colonel said:18 yr old kids make mistakes - just because they play first grade doesn't mean they are going to be mature enough overnight.
Yep, agreed. Maybe the club in organising/supporting/agreeing to these events could be a bit proactive with their venue partners about what they want to encourage in behaviour, to help the younger guys adjust to the change in scrutiny and maturity.The Colonel said:If the Roxy bouncers had asked Jarryd to leave there would have been no mention of it....
<UPtheEELS> said:This is why kids should not be thrust into first grade so young. Its not just about the on field responsibility its now about the off field responsibilities. This is why Iam sure Smithy shielded so many.