Ask LU - The Relationship Advice Thread III

[madunit]

Why would a woman suddenly out of the blue say 'we can't be friends anymore, for personal reasons'??

Honestly she's a great person who's been on and off about me for the last 3 months or so, but I'm getting tired of the dramatics.

it means she's got another bloke.

When she has the shits with him, she comes to you.

Get the f**k out of that relationship.

 

[madunit]

And now she just tells me she's met someone else, just a week after apparently 'not thinking I'm capable of ever being in a relationship again'. Isn't that just f**king brilliant.

Only just read this after my last post.

f**king nailed it.

You were nothing to her, ever.

Sad but true.

 

[Twizzle]

At least when you drop a load into a washing machine it won't constanty text you and call you for weeks afterward

it will still take you money off you though

 

[Dani]

My washing machine is broken. Have to do it all by hand.

 

[Twizzle]

explains alot

 

[Dani]

And its all my own clothes...

 

[Alba]

My washing machine is broken. Have to do it all by hand.

Same bro

 

[Springs]

Only just read this after my last post.

f**king nailed it.

You were nothing to her, ever.

Sad but true.

I was for a little bit (unfortunately I was overseas at the time). For the last two months you are spot on however. Don't think she had another bloke until recently but she led me on for a month when she already made her mind up early December, then tried again a few weeks ago. Yeah she just used me to get stuff off her chest when she had the shits with people.

I can't be bothered having anything to do with her now. She was a good person and we connected, but why would anyone want to put up with the bullshit of a person who tells you one thing and does another?

 

[Springs]

How did you get so lucky madunit?

 

[butchmcdick]

The big problem with the laundromat is that you aren't sure how many loads the washing machines have done prior to you arriving.

Some of those machines handle 15 or 16 loads a day.

Is that a front loader or a top loader ?

I mean that's a load every few hours. Must be quick loads

 

[Helmet Man]

f**k the relationship business. Just sleep around. If you want to get married then get arranged marriage to some hot as babe and get to know each other while your married. Build the friendship. And afterwards have sex.

 

[Springs]

f**k the relationship business. Just sleep around. If you want to get married then get arranged marriage to some hot as babe and get to know each other while your married. And after that have sex.

:|

What

 

[madunit]

How did you get so lucky madunit?

That question requires a long and complicated response not fitting for this forum, so I'll give you the alternate reason.

I don't get lucky. Lucky gets me.

 

[muzby]

That question requires a long and complicated response not fitting for this forum, so I'll give you the alternate reason.

I don't get lucky. Lucky gets me.

 

[Red Bear]

Red Bear - Man up and call her. No regrets bro

Springs - Flick her and move on

Agree with all of the above.

Red Bear - If you don't make the call, you will wonder "what could have been" for the rest of your life.

Just ring her and ask her out for a coffee and a chat.

Springs - Time to push the eject button. Otherwise she will string you along.

This

Red Bear reach down, gently remove your tampon and have a crack

Either way you are out of the mental torment you are in now. THat or just continue to replay it all over and over in you head

Springs she is nuts. The head f**ks won't end. Be like a housewife whose washing machine had broken down and find somewhere else to drop your load

Yes. You're all correct. She's moving to WA on the weekend (but will be back semi regularly anyway) for uni and i think she's booked out as far as lunches, coffes etc, I dunno, but I will give her a call tomorrow and at least find out either way if there was/is anything there.

As you said, better than just stewing stuff over. Which is what I do most of the time

 

[Cliffhanger]

I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks, he's in love with me, he treats me like a princess, he really values me and sees the best in me. He's sweet and kind etc, the only problem is I'm not sure I like anything about him outside of how well he treats me and how much he values me.

Is that a legitimate reason to be with someone? I mean I could not ask anyone to treat me better than he does, he truly sees the best in me and we have a lot of fun together.

 

[Drew-Sta]

I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks, he's in love with me, he treats me like a princess, he really values me and sees the best in me. He's sweet and kind etc, the only problem is I'm not sure I like anything about him outside of how well he treats me and how much he values me.

Is that a legitimate reason to be with someone? I mean I could not ask anyone to treat me better than he does, he truly sees the best in me and we have a lot of fun together.

Yes.

Stay with him. Love is grown, not bought.

In short, you picked well and you should keep on with him

 

[Didgi]

Cute girl in seminar mentioned NRL to back up her argument out of the blue.

Do I proceed directly to wifing her or will a period of courtship be required?

 

[butchmcdick]

Cute girl in seminar mentioned NRL to back up her argument out of the blue.

Do I proceed directly to wifing her or will a period of courtship be required?

What are her tits like

 

[Didgi]

Slim, average rack.