Elia said:Same here... I kinda get intimidated/scared of really pretty people,like beautiful people. There's this girl at my school she's SO beautiful that i'm scared of her..I ain't leso or n e anything but yeh.
Eelementary said:You all rock. And I mean it. Dead set.
* Footy fans (and none of this pansy, AFL crappy footy - I mean REAL men's footy)
* Intelligent posters
* I always come here and there are always people who appreciate my unfunny humour.
Physical beauty...Meh. I lack it, but I have other compensating gifts - such as personality, eloquence, intelligence, humour, etc. And here's the thing, elia and WC - those "beautiful and nice" girls....They won't be beautiful and nice forever. Brains et al, however, stick with you forever and will get you more in life.
Ask yourself - do you think Elle Macpherson is TRULY happy? Consider that:
* She's nowhere near as beautiful as she was 15 years ago;
* Nowhere near as famous;
* She has a son, but can't seem to find a steady partner with which to raise this child (and apparently she wants a man to marry her).
On the other hand, take the late and great Steve Irwin - not a great-looking man. Not very rich (I think you'll find that most of his money went back into protecting his wildlife). But he was TRULY happy - a wife, a beautiful baby girl AND he was working for something he REALLY believed in. I doubt very much the great man was jealous.
So you see...
Screw it. I'm just trying to say that if you compare Jessica Alba to Margaret Thatcher...It's not a given that Alba is better and/or happier.
Peace.
YOU ALL RULE.
KrypnotiK said:women r too hard to talk too at parties, pubs, im not a conversation initiater, except wen im pissed then i jibber and have no hope
ahh, wise words elementary, wise words
but, confidence across the board is hard -- im confident in my job, confident wen with my mates, but if a chicks nearby ahhhhhhh cya later in gone freeze up like my sh*tty old computer
Dani said:I think i often confuse jealousy with my extreme lack of self confidence.
Eelementary said:I know what you mean, mate. I wasn't too confident. When I played footy, I was pretty confident. Then I got injured, my gf dumped me and my confidence took a nosedive.
But recently I worked as a face-to-face salesman on streets, malls and train stations to get people to sign up for charities - and it really taught me how to be confident in myself (seeing as how the only way I'll get paid is if I successfully stop someone random and convince them to sign up). I was successfull, and I find it slightly easier now to approach random women.
It's not an easy task, by any means. But you eventually learn that if you're confident, even if she's not interested (unless she's a REAL bitch)...At the very least, she'll show you respect for going and talking to her.
Eelementary said:I'm not old!
Oh...right...:sarcasm: