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He'd be a thirsty mother too...
Have been there myself mate. Depression is hell, and realistically you never completely beat it. It's how you deal with it that determines your character. It doesn't define who you are.cram said:Roopy, you have said what I thought about the bi-polar as soon as I read it and his admissions about mental illness put some context into some of the behaviours we have observed over the years.
Yesterday afternoon I had little respect for one A Johns. His media statement did nothing to enhance his credibility, as a human being, with me.
This morning I feel very differently. I would not even say I am disappointed because to genuinely believe that societal issues are not present in the sporting arena would be naive and recent events in AFL highlight that.
Having suffered from depression for most of my life I know how difficult it can be to build yourself up day after day. It is difficult to admit you have a problem but when you do its that start of a great healing process. Hopefully this is the begining of that process for A Johns.
roopy said:speed is performance enhancing for league players.
I know a dozen guys who played in the newcastle comp in the 80s who played most games on speed - but like i said - it would show up in testing if they used it for games.
perverse said:how can a knights fan condemn joey? he was our hero on the football for so many years... brought us so much success.. and because he's had massive issues off the field, we are just to turn our back on him?
well... each to his own... but i'll always remember him for his on field exploits and the glory he did bring us. he's always had these off field problems... and some of us may have been in denial about that... but he showed absolutely huge balls in going public with this and he has my support for the future.
yes mate, went public. he could have stuck to that terrible story (as many high profile stars do) and he also could have admitted to that one pill and kept the rest under wraps. therefore - he went public.Rich102 said:Oh dear! Come on! Went public? He was arrested ffs!
antonius said:I think the club should be condemned if they (as Johns stated on page 2 of todays Newcastle Herald) were aware of his problem with drugs. They should've done something about it. There's a saying I live by, "You accept the standard you walk past" The Knights walked past his problem, so as far as I'm concerned they are as much to blame for accepting it, as he is for doing it, in fact more so. Paul Harragon said on the footy show that they all knew about his problems, it seems to me that they didn't do to much to help him with them.
Once my hero, still my hero, always my hero.
roopy said:i am a bit pissed off that he is destroying his 'legacy' by basically not acting his age.
The guy is 33 and seems determined to act like an 18 year old these days.
Thank god we have Chief as a role model for young players because Joey is never going to be a 'statesman'.
Johns said in his interview that he was diagnosed as having an illness that needed medication by the club doctor and sent to see 'a professor' in Sydney.antonius said:I think the club should be condemned if they (as Johns stated on page 2 of todays Newcastle Herald) were aware of his problem with drugs. They should've done something about it. There's a saying I live by, "You accept the standard you walk past" The Knights walked past his problem, so as far as I'm concerned they are as much to blame for accepting it, as he is for doing it, in fact more so. Paul Harragon said on the footy show that they all knew about his problems, it seems to me that they didn't do to much to help him with them.
The club knew of his mental illness yet turned a blind eye to his drug taking? That is unforgiveable. How could you possibly say they should be proud.roopy said:Johns said in his interview that he was diagnosed as having an illness that needed medication by the club doctor and sent to see 'a professor' in Sydney.
That is hardly doing nothing.
This wasn't in the papers - but it is clear they knew he had a mental illness, sent him for treatment, supported him throughout, and probably gave him counselling and over many years.
The alternative would be to out him in the press and abandon him to his fate.
As someone who works with the mentally ill - i can tell you that keeping him doing his life's work and mostly off the drugs and alcohol is a brilliant outcome. Not many people with a mental illness get the level of support which would have been needed to maintain a 'normal' life.
The club should be very proud.
My only reservation is that i doubt they would do this for a player who wasn't the best in the world.
perverse said:except for the fact that chief has been sweeping all of this under the carpet for the past 12 years. in a lot of ways he's very responsible for the situation we are now in, and he will take a big fall... i certainly can't see him being involved with the knights in any capacity other than a fan come 2008. heads will roll.
the alternative to 'sweeping it under the carpet' is to make it public, which is basically to drop him in the sh*t and end his career and destroy his life.perverse said:except for the fact that chief has been sweeping all of this under the carpet for the past 12 years. in a lot of ways he's very responsible for the situation we are now in, and he will take a big fall... i certainly can't see him being involved with the knights in any capacity other than a fan come 2008. heads will roll.