As a Penrith supporter I was bitterly disappointed to hear what had happened, however the most distressing thing was...I wasn't surprised by it at all. If the allegations are proven to be true I believe Gower should, at the very least, be stripped of his captaincy.
I understand that it must be difficult to live in the public eye, but they must realise, fair or not, it's reality. And it might do some of them good to remember, if Channel 9 didn't televise games, if the newspapers didn't report on rugby league, their identities wouldn't be household names and therefore their indiscretions wouldn't be public knowledge...but their salaries would decline significantly. You sacrifice part of your privacy when you choose a career like they have.
I also think some of the decisions that have been made in relation to this incident haven't helped. Who's bright idea was it to have a buck's night (notorious things to begin with), at a highly publicised charity event, with representatives from the media at every turn. I think just bad judgement on someone's behalf. And the change in attitude from Day 1 til today, first it was "absurd rumours", then it was no comment, then he was suing, now he's apologising, conveniently the day before a full report on his alleged incidents is being presented to his club. Doesn't look good from where I sit...and that's a huge shame for Penrith and the rugby league community in general.