Mate all I said was that you weren't an Alpha. Women behave differently when it comes to alphas. Trust me what they say and do with them versus the rest of us are two totally different things. I know my initial post was short and somewhat disparaging at face value, but I didn't feel like expanding so I just made it short and to the point. But generally about 15-20% at most are considered Alphas and their lives are considerately different in regards to the way the opposite sex treat and behave towards them.
I have seen it countless of times and it just blows my mind at times. Girls/women that you would never ever think would be part of this or that or do this or that and yet as soon as the 'right' kind of man is involved, then all bets are off. It is insane what I have seen or been part of(not because I'm an alpha) but because I was part of a Alpha group of friends. I won't go into specifics other then to say it didn't matter what age(legal age of course) young or old, married or not, groupie or not, girl next door or whore barfly, if they see what they want they tend to go for it. Some overtly but the more proper and demure types just do it very quietly and on the sly.
They were the ones that initially shocked me. How many girls/women behave like nice normal innocent girlfriends that are loyal and faithful to their men and then wham my mates are nailing them like nobodies business. Then they act like nothing ever happened and if you didn't know the studs they just dropped their pants for or if I wasn't the intermediary that set it all up, you wouldn't have a clue as to what they are capable of getting up to. Women are just a hell of a lot more sneaky and secretive about what they do and who they let get in between their legs. Most of us don't have that pass that opens that part of them up.
As for all that other stuff you have posted. Sorry to hear it mate. I hope everything is going well for you now and so terribly sad and sorry about your wife. My condolences. On that score I am definitely not looking forward to what is coming my way.
All the best.
My point with women is, do they do it for the sex or do they do it for the attention and validation. I still think it is the latter. Women know what men want and know how to use what they have to get what they really want. (There is a time in their cycle though which actually makes them horny but the time period is less than when they are not)
It makes themselves more self assured (FALSELY) just because they are getting pipe from an alpha. However, little do they know is that men treat sex and love differently. Sex for men is a kin to a pleasurable piss. It doesnt mean much except a bodily function that needs to be fullfilled. However, women think that the alpha loves them because they made love to them and they want these men because they are better than what they have and hope to be able to jump ship. I still dont think they do it just for the sex.
Women are opportunistic. Their love for a man is conditional. When the man they have don't fulfill their requirements no more, they monkey branch and look for the next one. I am generalising as I have actually met some really good ones but few. Unconditionally love, they reserve for their offsprings.
Do women like a good lay? yes and many a girl have told me that. If the sex is no good, then they will only continue with the relationship if the man can PROVIDE well for them.
I totally agree that a woman's mind is sneakier and more secretive than a man's. Men are a bit more careless and men like to brag. Our intuition is also not as highly tuned as a woman's to identify subtle changes when their partner is cheating.
Women are less physically dominant than man, and over many many thousands of years, they have had to use their wits to stay alive and for their offsprings to stay alive. It is why they are so cunning.
Men, we just beat our chest and fight it out.
Mate, whatever is coming your way, just tackle it as another problem to solve. I maybe over simplifying it but treat is as another lawn to mow and get it done. Fretting, worrying adds negative emotions and it's not needed. Negative people and people who play victims are negative emotions and keep clear of them unless you can make sure they dont affect you or you are playing the part to help heal them.
Good Luck... I do enjoy reading your posts.