Ask LU - The relationship advice thread

[adamkungl]

Just a hypothetical question here... Is having a thing with one of your ex's best friends ever a good idea? All hypothetical of course...

Ex's besties and sister are off limits imo...unless you can get ex to hook you up with her :lol:

 

[Jobdog]

Ex's besties and sister are off limits imo...unless you can get ex to hook you up with her :lol:

What if she's got two? :sarcasm:

 

[Cliffhanger]

If she's keen it's not your problem to be honest, she has to honour the code not you so it's wrong for her to sleep with you.

 

[Springs]

I wouldn't do it, unless both people were actually serious about it. Or if people/friends could end up hurt I wouldn't do it.

 

[Monk]

So what if, hypothetically, we were pretty close and fairly good friends, so much so that rumour floated around about us actually being together; which lead to us laughing it off and joking about it. Hypothetically, i'm not sure if I feel that way about her; but the whole situation means i don't really have a chance to find out. And I'd like to find out.

 

[adamkungl]

Is ex the sort of girl that would mind?

 

[Scott Gourley's Lovechild]

If your ex has an issue, that's her problem to bring up with the girl you like. Your only issue is what the girl you like thinks of you, bugger what the rest think.

 

[Hallatia]

If your ex has an issue, that's her problem to bring up with the girl you like. Your only issue is what the girl you like thinks of you, bugger what the rest think.

exactly!

However, girls generally don't see it that way, but why should it be your responsibility to cater to an ex Girlfriend's irrationalities

 

[dogslife]

Your ex is your ex for a reason, if she doesn't like it, she can get f**ked. My opinion anyway

 

[Big Pete]

The problem is managing the strain between that friendship and your new relationship.

Sometimes it can be too difficult.

 

[Springs]

So what if, hypothetically, we were pretty close and fairly good friends, so much so that rumour floated around about us actually being together; which lead to us laughing it off and joking about it. Hypothetically, i'm not sure if I feel that way about her; but the whole situation means i don't really have a chance to find out. And I'd like to find out.

Ah! I hate that!

It's always for me not trying to find out in case a good friendship becomes awkward. I've already ruined one.

 

[adamkungl]

Guess it depends if you give a shit about your ex.

 

[Different kind of Rabbit]

Monk, you obviously don't listen... I've told you the golden rule - if in doubt... Plough. It's the golden rule because it always applies.

 

[Twizzle]

especially if they have a pulse

 

[Shorty]

Well..I found a girl....I'm smitten.....dammit!!!

 

[Hallatia]

congratulations, does she reciprocate?

 

[Shorty]

Thanks!
Yes this one actually does Hala lol.

 

[cainen]

Who wants an enormous, fecked up relationship post?

 

[Hallatia]

Who wants an enormous, fecked up relationship post?

you know we all do. Make the post

 

[Hallatia]

Thanks!
Yes this one actually does Hala lol.

sexy, hope it all goes well for you