Ask LU - The relationship advice thread

[IanG]

I didn't get that Russian bride I wanted for Christmas Nice one Santa

 

[Timmah]

cainen - for what it's worth it seems like the relationship is ridiculously unhealthy for both of you and you seem to keep hurting each other. No matter how good it feels when things are okay, you're better off cutting your losses.

JMO

 

[cainen]

Thanks all for your advice and opinions. I've got plenty of things to think about..

 

[adamkungl]

You said it's your first relationship?

Difficult decision mate, been there (though we broke up for far, far less dramatic reasons). The main question (and not an easy question) is 'Do you both still make each other happy, and will you in the future?'

 

[cainen]

You said it's your first relationship?
'Do you both still make each other happy, and will you in the future?'

Yes, first serious relationship.

'Do you both still make each other happy, and will you in the future?'

Good question!

 

[adamkungl]

Yes, first serious relationship.



Good question!

Other shit aside, it's the only one you really need to answer. And if you or her answer "I don't know" then...you have some more thinking to do

 

[Bazal]

I didn't get that Russian bride I wanted for Christmas Nice one Santa

You know you can get those yourself, Ian....

 

[IanG]

You know you can get those yourself, Ian....

Where from?

 

[Twizzle]

Russia

 

[Skinner]

Just put 'em into google Ian.......it'll take you straight to them

 

[IanG]

Yeah maybe but as I stated in the other thread. Finding a lady who loves cricket and footy would rather a good feed at the club and seeing a live band on a Saturday Night over a posh restraunt and would go to the drive in are bloody hard to find.

 

[StormChaser]

Ok here's a curly one for you, does a drunken party pash with a random constitute cheating?

 

[Cliffhanger]

I don't think pashing ever counts as cheating, sober or drunk. But everybody else disagrees with me.

 

[Joker's Wild]

Yes, absolutely

Oh and offence Cliffy but you have a pretty abnormal outlook on relationships so its not surprising everyone disagrees with you

 

[IanG]

No because you don't seek it out. I've only ever got those on New Years Eves

 

[Cliffhanger]

Yes, absolutely

Oh and offence Cliffy but you have a pretty abnormal outlook on relationships so its not surprising everyone disagrees with you

I know, I'm going to die alone. But at least I'm insane and will probably die young.

 

[Raider_69]

Ok here's a curly one for you, does a drunken party pash with a random constitute cheating?

100%
How would you feel if your bf was walking around night clubs pashing other girls?

My fiancee would burry the ring in my forehead if i ever did that.

 

[StormChaser]

knew people would automatically assume it was me. Actually shire boy is the random pasher, and he can't remember a thing about it, shame others on fb remember it clearly.

 

[Joker's Wild]

I know, I'm going to die alone. But at least I'm insane and will probably die young.

Nah, you just need to find someone with the same abnormal outlook

 

[Cliffhanger]

Nah, you just need to find someone with the same abnormal outlook

Or somebody special enough to change my outlook.